A bit about me..

I’m a 5'10" in-shape white male. I enjoy the outdoors and indoors equally, meaning I can go on a hike one day and play video games the next. I’m a dad to two awesome little kids and enjoy spending time playing with them and watching them get super excited about new Dinosaur, or Pony toys. I like traveling and getting out of the PNW during the cloudy winter for several weeks. The active side of me loves to snowboard, work out, surf, mountain bike – pretty much anything with a bit of an adrenaline kick. However, I also enjoy naps on rainy days, video games, binge-watching TV shows, and generally spending time with the people I love.

I live in the suburbs and do well working in tech, so I can provide if you would like to stay at home. When I care about someone, I always put them first and make sure their needs and feelings are provided for. I guess you could say I am a bit traditional in the relationship aspect, but definitely open to new things. I love randomly buying flowers or hiding little love notes around the house. I’m pretty open-minded on most things and try to understand opposing views to challenge any bias I may have. I think it’s important to think critically and be empathic. I’m also quite ambitious and always looking to improve and learn.

A bit about my kinks:

I generally like to dom, and I’m a sadist and masochist, which means I enjoy when one person is experiencing pleasure while the other isn’t. That’s not to say I don’t enjoy pleasing you, that is just after I spank you. I enjoy TPE, CNC, bondage, anal play, watersports, and so much more. I’m bisexual and looking for a woman that is OK with me having a FWB relationship with a male. I’m not into having lots of partners though, just you and a male friend, or couple if you are also bi. I’m open on how to handle it, you are welcome to be involved, watch, or not at all. My hard limits are blood, severe pain, marking, knife and needle play. There are probably some more here but those are the first that come to mind.

What I’m looking for:

The qualities I value most in a partner are thoughtfulness, sweetness, caring, kindness, and playfulness. Thoughtful gestures like surprising me with a nice dinner, unexpected gifts or notes, or something sexual, mean a lot to me. Sexual compatibility is also important, as it's essential to avoid any frustration in this area.

I believe that beauty isn't limited to a specific shape or size, but I do prioritize a healthy lifestyle. Ideally, I'd like to be with someone who is physically active and enjoys activities like working out, hiking, skiing, and so on. While it's not a deal-breaker, I'd like to share some hobbies together and feel close to my partner. I also find it attractive when someone is clear about what they want.

Can't wait to chat, laugh and get freaky!