I'm looking for a sub who likes psychological domination. To feel something real, not merely to just "follow orders" but that feeling of being with a dominant as opposed to someone just stepping into the role for sexual gratification
I've always been a fairly intense dom. For me for a D/S relationship to feel real it has to both positive and negative reinforcement, to mirror how a regular relationship is. I find when it's all one or the other that's when it feels unrealistic and I like an actual relationship. Think of it like, you can't just constantly be harsh to someone without respite, but similarly if you want to control someone you can't just be constantly nice since you'll need to be firm and strict at least on occasion.
I often say that D/S isn't about what you do but how you do it and how you do everything. So even mundane activities can have a sub in their role or feeling submissive.
That's kind of how I see it, when a dominant and a sub are together it's like reality just warps around them and in that magical space they can be the truest version of themselves
I value companionship a lot, if you're like a pet to me that means I look after you and you look after me. I suppose you should see it as two different types of devotion.
So if you feel like you want to go on this journey with me don't hesitate to t message me via DMs or Reddit chat!
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