If this post is still up, then I'm still looking for my good girl. Pardon the long post - I'd prefer more detail early to avoid wasting each other's time. Please read the entire post to save us both time.

I'm looking for a long term connection/relationship to enjoy conversation (both kinky and vanilla), get to know each other, and - once both parties are comfortable - meet IRL (OH/KY/IN Tristate preferable). The ultimate goal is a permanent IRL dynamic/relationship, so if you're looking for online-only, I'm not your Dom.

*** Vanilla me ***

I'm 33, male, single, DDF, white, average height (5'9"), and fit. No kids, never married, but I would prefer to have kids/marriage in the future. I've been told I am and would consider myself conventionally attractive with sandy brown/blonde hair, short trimmed beard, and very blue eyes. I'm a gainfully employed homeowner with only dogs as roommates.

I'm generally extroverted. ENFJ, if that's your thing. I have many passions and hobbies, from fitness to acting to home projects to D&D.

*** Vanilla you ***

You're a 21-35 (age limits flexible) female, single, emotionally/mentally stable, and DDF. Ideally you're within driving distance of the OH/KY/IN tristate, but I'd consider something longer distance as long as eventual relocation is acceptable. You'd describe your physique in the range of average/proportionate to thin. (All you big girls are beautiful, but physical fitness is very important to me.) Height doesn't matter to me. If you're short, great. If not, I'm not intimidated by a taller girl. Height matters less anyway when you're bent over or on your knees, am I right?

I'm assuming there will likely be times when you are not gagged or your throat is not in use, so while not necessarily required it would be preferable if you also enjoy some hobbies and passions outside of kink that we can talk about and potentially experience together.

*** The kinky bits ***

I've been a Dom off and on for about seven years now. In the past I've fallen into a spectrum of variations of Daddy, Pleasure, Gentle, and Master Dom depending on our shared dynamic/preferences/limits and how we're feeling. To be clear, while I sometimes take on a more nurturing Daddy Dom role, I am NOT interested in age play.

While I don't have much experience in it, I am also intrigued by full or limited TPE. If that type of arrangement is of interest to you, I'd certainly be happy to discuss.

Kink-wise I'll share a sample list with the caveats that 1) I'm generally adaptable, so not liking any of these does not in itself constitute a dealbreaker and 2) this is a non-exhaustive list. In no particular order: bondage, orgasm control/overstimulation, impact play, free use, degradation, praise, face fucking/cock warming, anal play, CNC, and discrete public play. Limits are also important: anything illegal, blood, piss/scat, animals, and diapers (you or me) are notable to mention of mine. Also unless we're far along in a relationship, breeding is a limit for me. (I eventually want kids, but not until after I find my life partner.)

Any/all of that sound good? Great! Shoot me a message and we can start getting to know each other. If you're a good girl I know you'll have read all of this, so when you first message me include in your message something you like about yourself. I look forward to hearing from you.