I’m an experienced Dominant with traits of a natural Dominant, Daddy, soft Dom, pleasure Dom, disciplinarian, and a bit of a sadistic streak in there somewhere.

I’m a giver to my core, and I love to care for my partner and the people in my circle (albeit I keep this circle very small). I have a tendency to push myself to hard for the sake of being productive and taking care of others and the end result is typically neglecting what I need. I will always naturally put myself last.

For me, being a Dominant and engaging in D/s isn’t about control or power. It’s about safety. The safety of predictability. The safety of structure. The safety of knowing I spend each day giving everything I can to protect, own, and care for my submissive partner while she is fixated and focused on serving and caring for me. The safety of knowing this dynamic meets both of our needs and allows us the freedom to be who we are.

The partner I seek is going to resonate with the above paragraphs. She seems a dynamic that includes a heavy power exchange, possibly even TPE. She is naturally submissive and intelligent. She loves to care for people but even more so for her Dominant. She is capable but submits out of her own free will and desire, not because she needs to, but rather because she wants to. She has her own hobbies and interests, her own goals, is physically active and probably enjoys a night in more than a night out.

While a sexually fulfilling relationship is important, I do not want to get into the sexual aspects here. If we are a good match in the above aspects, we can discuss more sexual things in private - kinks, limits, turn ons, etc. What I can say is my drive is insanely high and I hope yours is too.

Physically I’m 6’0”, brown hair, hazel eyes, and fairly athletic/muscular build. I enjoy staying active and going to the gym. I prefer a partner the also enjoys taking care of herself physically and lives an active lifestyle. My preference is small or petite, but I’m open to others, so feel free to reach out.

I’m sure I’ve left some things out, so if you have questions, please ask