Good Evening

I'm 34f. This lifestyle has always been something I've known of, and was interested in for a long time. In trying to ask my past partners to be more dominant in the bedroom, a lot of them did it wrong or it turned abusive in a way.

Until recently, I was in a short relationship with someone who was in the state for a few months. He had never been a dom before, yet he was able to perfectly execute what I needed/wanted. Within the dynamic we had, and being in that state of vulnerability, I learned what it was like give up control and give that trust to someone. In return, I found healing. Which sounds odd I assume.

This is one of the reasons why communication is extremely important to me. I learned how to better communicate and advocate for myself through hard work and therapy; and I hope you could do the same. I don't want to have to guess where you stand on a subject.

Decision making was thrust upon me at a young age. Since then, it was on me a lot of the time to take care of everyone. Yk, first born daughter stuff. But, after experiencing what I recently did, I realized I want and need someone who I can give that trust to; to make decisions, and take that control from me so I can rest mentally. In the bedroom and in real life.

About me though:

I am plus size, not huge but definitely not small. I work a lot. I have dry and dark humor that boarders being worried hehe I game(PC) I write poetry and short stories. I'm a brat. Apparently it's just naturally a part of who I am. I love music. I watch anime, kdrama and movies. I recently started the new game of thrones series.

What I'm looking for: A soft dom who can put me in my place, but be playful with me. Someone who's body is physically fit or a dad bod, and preferably well endowed. Someone responsible, with a good job and is somewhat stable Communicative, open and honest

♡ If you're interested, please respond to this with a messaging containing your age, location, what you're looking for and how long you've done this lifestyle for. A photo is a plus. Also, just so i know youve read all of this, tell me your favorite song♡