I am a 38 year old, single, submissive woman currently living in Alabama. Actively looking for a local play partner and/or a long-term D/s relationship. I would prefer IRL but am open to an online dynamic if the right person comes my way. I prefer someone over 30 and under 50 but there is potentially some wiggle room on the high end depending on the person but not interested in under 30. Also, please be in or close to CST time zone.

I am not a skinny lady. I’m chubby/fat but also strong as hell. I was cursed with short, stocky Eastern European grandma genes and, well, what can ya do. I am physically active and mentally sound. I like to say it gives you more hold onto, slap around, and you’ll get the most beautiful bruises 😏 Also, I’m not ultra-feminine. I prefer comfy clothes over fancy. I do enjoy exploring my feminine side but, naturally, I’m going to choose comfort first.

I am fairly introverted and will quickly choose hanging out with a small group of friends over a rowdy night out. I enjoy reading, cooking, hiking, swimming, hanging out with my dogs, a good fire pit on a cool night, and a nice cold IPA. I’m funny, loyal, and caring.

I am looking for a Dom with a good bit of experience in kink. Someone kind and caring but also confident and competent. I have my shit together and expect you to as well. You must believe in mental health care and have easy access to your therapist. I like someone mildly nerdy but who also enjoys a more mainstream lifestyle. I want to watch sports, go hiking, check out breweries with you. If this is an online dynamic, I want more than just a list of tasks to perform. I would like there to also be a genuine attempt to get to really know me.

Kink wise: I am into impact play, TPE/Authority transfer, free-use, all things anal, breast/nipple play, rules and structure, bondage, sensory deprivation, wax play, electro play, orgasm control/denial, general frustration, breeding, bathroom control, and others we can chat about that I’ve definitely forgotten to add.

Limits: anything illegal, blood, poop/pee, social suicide, blackmail, bimbofication, dollification, and, same as above, probably others that I haven’t added.