TL;DR - I'm looking for a girl whom is NYC-based and has their own place. Ideally, you also have an oral fixation or, at the very least, a strong desire for foreplay and kissing. And you're interested in foreplay / oral hang outs to let both of us relax and de-stress together in the best way possible.

Ultimately, I’m trying to find a new FWB who is looking for something similar. I would genuinely like to become friends, first and foremost, but friendship aside would love to focus on foreplay. So much so, that I’m genuinely not that interested in sex. Instead, I want to kiss, make out, go down on you, have you go down on me, take turns edging and also having multiple orgasms. I would like this to be seen as something fun, stress relieving and honestly a bit therapeutic. Maybe one of us had a long day and all we want is someone between our legs while we lay back, zone out, and tune out the world. You should be comfortable (or at least willing to try) giving and receiving head for an hour or more :) Not continuously, but in a way that’s slow, soft, sensual and involves handjobs (for me) and fingering (for you) mixed with make out sessions.

In the background, we can put on a movie, tv show, or just an awesome chill playlist of music while we let each other enjoy the ultimate way to relax and de-stress.

I’m ideally looking for something on-going on a somewhat regular basis. We don’t have to commit to anything, or any sort of cadence, but I’d love to meet up maybe once every few weeks and possibly more often depending on how we get along and how our schedules align. However, if you’re visiting NYC and like the sound of this and would prefer a one time thing, we could do that as well!

I’ve done something like this before, years ago, and would love to try it again with the right person. I’ve also been reading a lot of books about foreplay, cunnilingus, and some amazing techniques for longggg sessions. I’d love to incorporate everything I’ve learned into this new FWB situation :)

As for more about me, I’m 35, white, about 5’7”. Pretty average body size and member size. I’m a software engineer. I love video games and tinkering with things. I love playing Tennis. I’m learning how to fly a plane. I also love sushi, love adventuring, traveling, and trying new things :)

Let me know if this interests anyone!