About me: Hi, I'm 31, male, and live in NYC, though I grew up in Scotland. No accent, sorry. I work in a white collar industry, though currently I'm in a bit of a re-invention phase, as I'm gearing up to go to flight school while also pursuing a college degree. Should have done it a decade and a half ago, but such is life. I have entirely too many books. I'm also a massive nerd. I will happy talk for hours about obscure, mundane tidbits of historical knowledge. I'm also a tabletop gamer, which puts me approximately on the same level as guys who have basements dedicated to train sets. Sometimes I wear kilts, which I maintain are awesome. I apologize for none of this. Physically I'm 6' even, and moderately heavier than I should be, although it's coming off over time. I'm down a good 15 lbs in the past few months, in fact.

What I'm looking for: A partner that meshes well with the above. We don't have to have all the same interests, but a general vibe match would be nice. BDSM is an important part of a relationship, but it's far from the only part, and so having a good foundation to build off is important. I don't have any specific age in mind, although the closer to each other the better, generally. Location isn't super important at this juncture, unless you're very local to me then I'm happy to engage in an online situation, with the potential for travel in the future if things develop that way.

The Kinky Part: I'm somewhat flexible on this, quite honestly. I enjoy having a happy, fulfilled partner and I'm generally down to try new things, with a few exceptions. I am not interested in married women, being a throuple, or anything generally non-monogamous. Things that I have some level of experience with include: D/s dynamics, DDLG (To a degree), TPE/power dynamics in general, the actual physical part of bondage, pet play (to a degree), degradation/humiliation play, cnc...I'm sure I can think of some others. Like any sane person, I find open and honest discussion about shared kinks is absolutely key, and I firmly believe in the mantra of Safe, Sane, Consensual. Amusingly, I'm a teddy bear for the most part.

If any of this sounds like your cup of tea, send me a message! I don't mind Reddit's chat feature though if you personally hate it as many do, my inbox is open as well.