I'm 35, straight, living with my girlfriend (who is my sub in our relationship).
She is aware I'm looking, however she won't submit to you.
Once in a while, she might be willing to assist you, and it's definitely possible to talk with her.
My dynamic with her is my top priority and should not be affected by our online play.
I'm looking for an online dynamic.
Since I'm the Dominant in my relationship, it makes it a bit tricky.
What I can do:
- Follow basic rules.
- Do discrete stuff while working from home (e.g. wear a plug, cock cage, ...).
- Complete interesting tasks (things which take more time, a bit of a bondage session, ...)
- Occasional online sessions.
We possess a wide variety of toys: cock cage, vibrators, plugs, gags, cuffs, ropes, clamps, fucking machine, canes, paddles, ...
I don't need to have conversation all day; but I do expect to have regular contact. Even if it's just a quick check-in.
However, the dynamic would be mostly task-based and/or session-based.
As a sub: I'm mostly into:
- Chastity (complicated in my relationship, so mostly while my girlfriend is out)
- Anal
- Bondage
- Humiliation
- A bit of pain, but not that much.
I'm NOT into:
- Feminization
- Sissification
- People who can't spell at all.
- People who suddenly disappear for a couple of days without prior notice.
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