It took me a while to figure out this was a possible kink but hoping to find a good match. Typically, sex is a problem for me. When you're 10" and think it's usually too big for most women to enjoy. It's mostly a deal-breaker with typical dating, yet the best sex of my life was someone who actually enjoyed the pain. I was in a LTR for years and got used to constantly asking "how does that feel, is that okay?" Etc during sex. Fast forward a few years and now I'd love the idea of not worrying too much if she's enjoying it, as I've met subs so actually enjoy the pain from sex so hoping to find more of the same. I'm happy to get you off in other ways (I love using toys, my mouth, etc) but for the actual sex sex I'm hoping you let me just be selfish on that front.
Beyond that I'm not into anything too crazy but happy to hear any other things that turn you on.
Ideally we'd have a stable white-collar relationship with some naughty secrets 😈
Me: 6'2" medical professional, California native. Stay fit but love trying new restaurants and foods. Love travel and wine. I have a dog and a house and a very vanilla life outside of sex. Would love to hear from you.
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