Please at least pretend you read the post before messaging me.

I'll be honest, I never understood why a lot of posts here are written the way they are. There's so many people who just go immediately into fetishes while simultaneously proclaiming their own worth. I don't get it. I mean, if they and their partners are happy and healthy, I'm happy for them. But kink should be something between people with a connection, I believe. I'm not against talking about kinks or whatever before anything is established, but doing it right off the bat is just a huge flag that reads "short term". Which is fine, but not my main goal.

Anyways, hello. I'm 23, use they/them, and residing in Northern California. I work as a janitor during swing shifts, I believe they're called. I'm still figuring out my sexuality, but it's likely demisexual, or a low drive. Maybe both. A lot of my time is spent writing and playing games, I've been falling into my Darkest Dungeon 2 addiction again lately. I'm also trying to learn fencing because "wow cool swords", but my schedule makes it hard to find time. Physically, I am AMAB (albeit I look pretty fem, arguably passable), 5'9 and 155-160 pounds. I try to do light exercise every day.

My goals with posting are pretty simple. I want to explore some kinks, my switch side and help you explore things too. Ideally, this would branch out into something a bit deeper, but I have no expectations for this happening, so it's okay if that's not what you want. My current kinks are forced feminization, yandere stuff, worship, corruption, bimbofication a little bit. Just identity play in general. Likely others that I'm forgetting. I don't know if this is a kink, but hearing/saying "I love you" during sex is always... nice.

I'm sorry for the nothingburger of a post this is. I'm not good at posting.