(Just a note, this is my first time doing something like this, i.e. posting to Reddit and for such reasons, so I’m certainly a bit apprehensive but excited to see what happens…!)

I’m 29 and based in the UK. I’m a somewhat quiet introverted person, though over the last couple of years I’ve been growing more comfortable with myself and working on a lot of things towards personal confidence and satisfaction. I’m certainly happier about myself than I was ten years ago; having achieved a post-graduate degree, making progress with my career and creative practices and having a few breakthroughs along the way has meant I’m now wanting to push my boundaries and explores new connections and showcase a more Dominant personality.

I’m fairly new to BDSM culture, sort-of been on the fringe for several years while and wanting to do as much research as possible/meet the right people to explore with. Communication, honesty and kindness are very important, I definitely have a thing for intimacy and exploring in a healthy, consensual way. And being a successful Dom is about having that foundation of trust and communication, I certainly feel.

I’m quite open in terms of kink, totally keen to explore what both myself and a partner would be interested in (more willing to share interests if a connection sparks). I have a particularly creative imagination so I’m quite often composing ideas and scenarios that I would enjoy and could be fun to explore and polish. Depending on the circumstances, I would want this to be text based to begin with until we both feel comfortable with engaging further.

Physically – I’m 5’10, average body, though have recently very much started working on my diet and exercising regularly, which is showing nice progress (again, compared to ten years ago, I’m a real glow-up now, haha). Medium length brown hair, brown eyes, glasses.

I’m particularly looking for a partner who undoubtedly attractive, though show real signs of confidence, independence, emotional intelligence and personality. Someone who knows what they want and is still able to grow alongside someone. I’m certainly something of a slow-burn romantic type at heart, so developing that trust and bond before diving into the true Dom/Sub aspect would be perfect.

Be sure to tell me about yourself and your ideas and feelings for an ideal relationship.