Hi there. Fair warning that this is gonna be a long personal, but you're worth it.

TL;DR: I'm an experienced, creative, active, caring Dom looking for a sub who is equally passionate in life, and yearns to give into/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding kinky relationship.

About me:

Physically - I'm 38,white, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, active/athletic (6’5/210 lbs). Happy to verify each other with photos once connection is there.

Personality - Think Chip Gaines meets Keanu Reeves. I'm a mixture of passion, golden retriever, and just the right amount of deviancy. I've been described as playful, sadistic, caring, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, or physical touch.

Interests - I've got a pretty eclectic assortment of interests, including: archery (Olympic Recurve), music (everything but the artist Lorde), art (I enjoy painting), games (tabletop video trivia), reading/writing (medical journals & biographies), health (mental physical), cooking (especially bbq), languages (I speak one other language ), Gardening/plants(ask me about my cactuses, I’ve got 25-ish).

Who and what I'm looking for- Let's be a kinky power couple together! Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they're complimentary. I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/ ambitious- but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a D/s dynamic... This lifestyle is meant to make us be the best version of ourselves for each other, so shall We?

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things,she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, accepting of and serious about finding a Dom partner. I'm open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.). My only dealbreakers in a partner are: Lying, & lack of communication skills.

Location - I am in EST time zone, however location does not matter to me as I have a lot of flexibility when it comes to travel.

I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated. <3

The kinky stuff

Experience - Whether this is your first or fiftieth rodeo, I'm welcoming of all as l've been in the lifestyle for the past 15 years. In that time, l've had D/s relationships to different degrees (including DDIg, TPE, M/s, low/mid/high protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I'm big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - Scat, animals, kids, the usual

My kinks - Include impact play, tpe, bondage/ shibari, I am an exhibitionist, I can be a little bit sadistic, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/ protocols, among others...

If any of this catches your fancy, please feel free to reach out! Your selfie gets mine, I’m looking forward to getting to know you better :)