Hi there 😊,

I’m looking for a monogamous relationship with a Daddy Dom. I am driven, successful, and well accomplished; so the idea of having someone care for, support, and teach me new things is attractive. I would like my partner to be successful, have leadership skills, and have some accomplishments under his belt as well. I am a bit picky, but not unreasonable. I’m ideally looking for a kinky romantic relationship with spanking at the forefront.

About me: I am 5’2, average build but curvy, long locs, and female(cisgender). I am Black American. I am monogamous and single, I would like my DD to be as well. I enjoy reading, music, movies, traveling, and exploring new foods and places. I want someone I can travel and make dinner with just as much as I can be kinky with. I’m well educated and enjoy the work I do. I identify as a middle, baby girl, and princess sub. I am interested in spankings, impact play, DD, light humiliation, light exhibitionism, light bondage/restraints, orgasm control, and role playing.

Hard limits: blood, needles, scat, permanent markings/changes, face slapping, degradation (like name calling), race play, and play with anyone outside of my Dom/partner, etc.

What I’m looking for: I am looking for an experienced Daddy Dom that desires to be caring and nurturing, but has a firm hand and enjoys using it often 😏. I enjoy affection and cuddling and want my partner to be affectionate as well. I’d do my best to please and obey. I like structure and consistency, so I would like to establish foundational rules and expectations. I want a romantic connection just as much as a physical connection.

I’m looking for something in-person and not just an online relationship. I would like to see each other fairly often, so people who are within a 2.5 hour driving distance are ideal. I’m in San Diego. Additionally, while politics in general are a mess right now, I’m not a fan of conservative politics or hyper-religious and close-minded individuals. Also, I know this post was a bit long, but taking the time to read it gives me a glimpse into your ability to be diligent and intentional. So, when you message me include your favorite season. If you do not, I will not reply.

If you want to know more or have any questions, feel free to start a chat with me! I am not comfortable sharing pictures right away, but will if/when I feel comfortable enough to do so. If you want to send me SFW pictures, I am open to those. We can start here and then move to another app.