Hiii I wanted to make it more alliterative than that but oh well. Long post ahead maybe - I'm looking for something monogamous and emotional at its core. Do not message me if you're married, poly, etc and aren't willing to talk daily, even if it's mostly text ^. What I seek is a relationship where we spend time learning about ourselves, sexually and nonsexually, that is eventually inperson and something like near TPE. I'm flexible concerning the dynamic though.

Physically, I'm 5'6, lean, white, wavy brown hair, brown eyes. I have a degree and a job that can be done full long-distance. I'm a huge nerd(love fantasy books, games, ttrpgs etc), and have a penchant for niche cool media(weird anime/manga, foreign or arthouse movies). I really appreciate the natural world so I quite enjoy hiking, camping etc. I've been working more recently on fitness and have entertained getting into cycling, mostly to have the physical capability to go on long bike trail rides eventually. If you're fit and willing to whip me into shape eventually that would be a great bonus ;p I love meeting new people, going to new places, and learning new things. I'm an extroverted introvert, well traveled, and very well read as a consequence.

Ideally, you would be very financially stable, taller than me(especially 6 inches taller), older than me(especially 5-10 years older, or so), and are a very thoughtful and introspective, intelligent, wise, nurturing, parental, intimate kind of man, who himself deeply needs a girl to give her all to him. My standards are not harsh or specific, because I care more about the emotional connection and sexual compatability between me and my dom.

In terms of the dynamic, I have a persistent desire to be cared for and owned to create a sense of constancy, stability, and love that has been missing from my life. I require frequent expressions of love(touch is my language) and validation. I'm not very bratty, I'm extremely agreeable as a sub and will do almost anything for someone I really love as long as they princess carry me to the deed <3. I won't get into specific kinks publicly because I think that the kind of man interested in this dynamic will have similar enough kinks to me anyways. Initially, I'd like to just have daily calls, movie nights, or something like that while we get to know each other, and we would arrange something inperson within some weeks if we click to see if it transfers physically.

Disclosure: I'm trans. I am passable and have a reasonably normal female voice. I am mid-medical transition and so have parts. I have no interest in using them and I plan to replace them. What this does NOT mean: i'm a cd, sissy, male in any way, or that it defines me. Most assumptions you have about me from this information are probably wrong. What it DOES mean: i'm a girl with an unfortunate medical condition that has to deal with a lot of bs for it. It annoys me that I have to share this up front, but it's better that I do so, and interactions on this sub have made me realize that if I don't do so most people don't realize that I am from pics/voice like I assumed, which can make things very awkward.

I'd love to hear from you! I don't require very fast pic swap/verification but it can be if you really want and I like you. I won't respond to low effort dms or ones that are explicitly sexual very initially. What I am really looking for is an intellectual or otherwise deep conversation to start, as well as the same or similar information from you that I've given.