Intro / Looking for
Heya! I am new to femdom. My experience as of now is theoretical, though i have no practical experience, i think that D/s relationships and the trust and nurturing it takes to make them florish is a beautiful thing. I am searching for someone with whom i can build that trust and nurture. Someone who is relatively inexperienced like myself and wants to experience and learn about that new side of themselves with a like minded partner, or a more experienced domme is also welcome if they are willing to take on a partial or full mentor role.
I want to build a relationship with communication as the core foundation. Openess, knowledge sharing, being comfortable sharing kinks, fantasies, desires and expectations without fear of being judged, ridiculed or kink shamed. Emotional maturity is a big plus, things may not always go perfectly and we make mistakesm, we are only human and to be understanding of that fact, reflect and talk about mistakes or disagreements when they occur.
I am mainly interested in experimenting IRL, though im willing to try online if distance becomes too big of a challange. If we dm, i will treat you as a normal person, and i expect the same from you. Until weve talked, gotten to know each other a bit and have both agreed on starting a D/s dynamic we are equal. No kink dumpstering here.
About Me SFW
- Age: 23
- Location: Norway (GMT 2)
- Sexuality: Hetero/Demisexual
- physical description: 187cm or about 6"2 in freedom units, avarage build, dirty blond hair, brown eyes (sfw pics can be exchanged in dms)
Personality wise i am introverted, laid back and affectionate person. Im deeply empathetic and i can cry occasionally, especially if i see other people suffering. Im a socialist and have an interest in Intersectional justice and sustainability.
For a living I am interning as a software developer at the moment, in my free time i like to cook and try out a new recipes, relax with a hot beverage and play some video games on a cool rainy night. Take a nice calming walk or hike through the forests. I also play DND and ttrpgs but that is kind of an on and off again thing right now. I have an active imagination and will often burst into role play spontaneously, especially when playing a game with friends.
About Me NSFW
As ive said i am still quite early in my journey but i do have a pretty good idea of where i stand as a submissive. My kinks include:
- Servicing such as giving oral, foot and leg massages, domestic servitude π₯π§Ίπ§Ή.
- Pet play, being owned, caged, disciplined, praised, collared and leashed.
- pain, recieving physical and/or verbal punishment such as impact play, human furniture, degredation and flogging.
- TPE, surrendering control of my free will and choices to my partner (within bounderies and limits.)
- Genuinely enjoy each other's company outside of nsfw :)
If your kink/s arent listed here do not be dismayed. This is a rough and simplified draft. Kinks can be discussed in more detail in dms.
- Limits: Cuckolding, Forced Bi, Findom
Kind of Person Im Looking For
Im first and foremost looking for someone who is patient, understanding and wants to put effort into communicating and building a relationship.
I believe sadist, owner type dommes would be most compatible with me but it's not a requirement. If you have any mental illnesses or afflictions, it's not a deal breaker for me, i will accept you as you are. I just ask you be open about it so i know. Understand that i will not submit or start the dynamic immediately. To talk, get to know each other first is a must. Compatible time zone to GMT 2 is preferred.
Outro
Thanks for reading my post this far. If what you've read interests you or if you have any feedback on my post don't hesitate to send me a dm with an intro. Have a nice rest of your day!
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