Happy Sunday! I am putting myself out there, hoping to find my person. I will try and keep this as short as possible, as I know I can ramble a bit. I am going to try and keep this as short (but detailed) as possible.

I am a 30, single woman living on the east coast. I am submissive, but I’ve been told I do have some bratty tendencies. But nothing over the top, I’m respectful and I don’t push boundaries too hard. I am always actively working on bettering my communication, as I know my younger years were filled with passive aggressive comments and I realize how damaging that can be.

I also love to serve, or just keep my Dom company when he needs to run errands or get work done. I’ve been in and out the lifestyle since I was about 18.

I realize putting myself out there can sometimes seem overwhelming, but I prefer not to deceive anyone. I am about 5’2, AA with hazel green eyes, and working to lose weight. I hope this isn’t held against me, as I know I want to have a healthier and active lifestyle. Pls be patient with me as I am doing my best and working hard 🥹 (also any tips for weight loss or healthier meal alternatives always welcome!)

I do enjoy scary movies. My favorite holiday is Halloween, so I am excited for this spooky szn! I also like anime and video games, so those that identify as nerds are also encouraged to message me. I have been a PC player for years but I have recently crossed over to the console side, and I am enjoying being able to play games I wouldn’t have normally played on my pc (my pc needs a bit of an upgrade, which is a work in progress).

At one point, I thought I wanted a TPE, but I ended up chatting with someone and they made me realize maybe that isn’t want I want, or that person just wasn’t compatible with me. I want to submit to someone I can have a genuine, authentic connection with. A man that knows bdsm isn’t just something to spice up your bedroom/sex life. I crave that connection so bad. While I feel happy for those who can find that kind of connection, I still feel envious because I haven’t been so lucky to find it myself.

I am searching for someone in the US, I am open to long distance. I ask that you know how to communicate, and be open and honest with your intentions. Any person 25 is what I’m looking for age wise. While I know life happens, I am not interested in any kind of poly dynamic. I am monogamous, and my partner should be the same. Anyone that is not emotionally intelligent, or able/willing to communicate, my apologies but I would not be the ideal partner for you. Also, if you are married, not officially divorced and/or involved in any kind of “situationship” where the other person feels they have a claim to you, please do not approach me. No judgement, I just know what works best for me. Side note: if at any point you feel you wish to move on from me, please just let me know. We are adults and basic courtesy would be to express yourself and not just ghost someone.

I do appreciate you all taking the time to read, I am an introvert so talking about myself isn’t my strongest trait, but I hope to hear from people soon! I am open to questions and conversations to see if we are a good fit for each other. Also, tell me your favorite movie and/or holiday in your message! (any message with just “hey” or “hi” or nothing thought out will automatically be ignored/deleted so I kindly ask to have some effort be put in for your first message to me)