Disclaimer: I value the parts of kink that are psychological more than the sexual parts. I’m not a sex addict or desperate. I’m all about the bond, the connection and belonging to a worthy Dominant. I don’t easily give myself over, but when I do - I give my entire being over and can become quite lustful. Once I make the choice to submit, I am yours, this won’t happen straight away.

Physically - I am 5’6. I’d say curvy/average body. Long red hair, blue eyes. My favourite feature is my face and I’ve no problem showing you after speaking for a bit.

Mentality - I’ve been through a lot. I think that most emotionally intelligent people have. I value that in someone else because empathy in any kind of conversation allows the possibility for the connection to open up for me and for me to feel safe. I’m INTJ if that is any indication for you. I value hard work, hobbies and technical passions. I work as an engineer and I love to continually learn. My goals are eventually be an expert in a couple areas and specialise. I also do counselling as I like to stay balanced and take care of my mental health. I would consider myself very understanding. I’m a quiet introverted girl, always watching and observing

Kink (psychological) - giving myself over completely - Trusting my masters opinion and direction despite my inner doubt - Pleasing my master - Following rules - Encouraged self improvement - Being introduced or pushed into new things - I quite like blackmail but it’s hard to execute this over the internet and it would be a long time before that happens There’s lots more but it’s down to the dynamic and how it blooms and grows between me and you.

Kink (sexual) - I’m only going to write four words so we can tease this out.

Pain. Helpless. Used. Denied. Torture.

What kind of man I’m looking for - I don’t mind what age you are, it’s not a limiting factor to me. I don’t mind where you are either, as long as you’re comfortable with time zones and making that work. If you’re in a poly/open relationship and still have time to accommodate a deep online dynamic than I command you and I’ll also have patience towards that.

I really like a man who can stand on his own feet and also be vulnerable with me. I think that’s very hard for a man to achieve, but I do value it a lot. I really enjoy a sadistic man, although it’s not necessary. I just enjoy that glint of evil and the excitement of fear. I’m quite open, honestly. I just want someone who can recognise my depth and is at the same level of emotional maturity so we can see eye to eye and fill that void of needing to submit (for me) and dominate/control (for you) comfortably and easily. You know what you want, from life, from yourself and you know what you want from me. This is all about your wants.. I’m easy and I enjoy 95% of kink. I’m here as your object to please you. I’d like to think I’m nothing without that, eventually.

Tell me a bit about yourself, and your thoughts on why you think we might work well together.

Thank you for reading.