Well hello there! How nice of you to stop by 😊 I'll try to keep this short but fair warning it will still be long. I am just trying to be upfront and clear about what I am hoping to find.

So let's begin! my name is Matt, I'm 33 years old and I live in the pnw here in Oregon. You don't have to be local, I am ok with this remaining online but I would really like to find someone who would be interested in actual meetups, dates, etc. I don't mind driving a little bit for that but not a crazy amount. 2ish hours away is as good a line as any for that I suppose lol. I do have kids and a schedule with them that I need to work around so patience and understanding are majorly important to me.

I'll clue you in on a little bit about me but I can't spoil everything right here in the post. I've been exploring and researching this lifestyle since I was in highschool. I have read a ton of things, listened to podcasts and the like and have a decent amount of time under my belt doing this online or picking people's brains online. My real life experience however is lacking. I was in 2 long term relationships that I believed would travel down the kinky paths only to discover it was not an interest to either of those partners. I've been lucky enough to try a few things but am really dying to try more with somebody who enjoys it as much as I do and isn't doing it just out of a sense of obligation. That is my number one pet peeve so please, let that eagerness shine through and don't be afraid to let that energetic puppy type energy out lol.

I'm a pretty good looking guy by most standards. Not a model by any means. Slightly above average I would would say. Manly, rugged, lumberjack, teddy bear, major daddy vibes, gorgeous eyes, and a great smile are all things I've heard over the years. These days my dark hair and beard are getting streaked by greys and whites and I'm actually digging it a lot.

Outside of the realm of sexual debauchery I love to get outside, I achieve that by playing disc golf. I'm a fantastic cook. I'm polyjamorous (you're welcome for the new word😁) and I enjoy pretty much any catchy songs I can sing poorly too and then some. I'm a little crafty and artsy. I can build things I can remodel I can do basic car and "man" things. I love texting frequently, I have a brain that thrives on civil discourse with another intelligent person on any topic. I love animals...except chickens ..damn birds...and I have a massive weakness if someone needs help, especially kids. To many have it to hard out there. I do what I can when I can which isn't a lot but better than none.

As for you lovely reader, I ask that you be available emotionally and eager for this journey if we click. Have a brain and opinions, have desires and a list of "want to try this". Be able to contribute to a conversation not just be present. And be hwp. You won't catch me shying away from curves but I do have a line. Your age, kinks, experience level, relationship status, all mean very little to me if anything at all.

If you think there's a chance we might hit it off I would encourage you to take a chance and send that message. Introduce yourself. Put at least a little effort into it lol and tell me what brought you to this dirty side of the world. I hope you all have the best day's possible!