For me, Reddit is a way to meet people who share my interests and outlook on life, and I’m not much for kink-focused social media. That’s what this page is here for.

I am: 32, 6 ft, fair-haired, fit, driven in both career and life, funny, confident, and grounded. I know myself well and believe I have a solid understanding of others. I’m comfortable managing a healthy dynamic, family-oriented, and naturally social. I love to read, have a close-knit social circle, and have traveled solo worldwide. Proud father to three loaves of sourdough—and counting.

You are: A woman in her early or mid-20s with ambition and passion, looking to build a rich, fulfilling life alongside an experienced Dom. You’re adventurous, enjoy trying new things (both in and out of the bedroom), communicate well, and take care of your health. You’re passionate about something—whatever lights you up. You enjoy deep conversations, and while you embrace your submissive side, you don’t easily give it away; the right partner will earn it, and when you submit, it’s more than just physical.

Kink-wise: I enjoy power dynamics and control, understanding your needs and using that knowledge to deepen your pleasure. I want a good girl by my side, whether we’re out with friends or in a quiet moment with family, who’s also eager and uninhibited behind closed doors. Expect to be aroused—and often.

What I offer is a chance to mold you, guiding you from a wayward girl into an obedient submissive, collared and owned. This might mean something sexual, but it may also mean something as simple as a rule about your speech or conduct, fitness, or etiquette. My aim is psychological intimacy and complete trust.

I offer one-on-one, private mentorship in the art of submission, something I am deeply skilled in and passionate about. I love stripping away pretense to uncover your most hidden fantasies and pushing you to live them out fully.

With six years of experience in D/s, I’ve explored complex dynamics, rituals, and rules, and I've had the privilege of seeing how powerful these relationships can be. Kink isn’t my entire life; family, friendships, passions, and art come first. But it’s a profound part of me, and I can’t imagine life without it. I want something lasting and real—growth, depth, and honesty are key.

I prefer the caring yet firm role of a Daddy. I enjoy pain play, free use, tasteful humiliation, intense eye contact, and exploring femininity and control both inside and outside the bedroom, though in everyday life, I lean toward a soft, supportive approach.

If this resonates with you, message me. I’m still looking if this post is still up.