I'm an experienced Dom looking for a submissive woman to partner with.

About Me

I'm in my early 40s with a corporate job. These days I tend to have more nerdy interests (reading, technology, science), but still watch love to watch explosions, football, and go fast on my motorcycle. I love to tease, especially if you get a little embarrassed - that is double fun for me! My work is pretty busy through the day, but generally affords me an opportunity to catch up on messages. I am pretty hopeless in the kitchen, which is made worse by the travelling I've done recently for work. It's jarring from eating out at fine restaurants for a few weeks and then coming home to having a simple sandwich at home. I need culinary help!

Me as a Dom

I am looking for someone to connect with on the daily. While most of our messages will be grouped up in the mornings or evenings, I'd be looking to check in on you in between meetings and what not. I want to hear what you're up to and support you throughout your week. I want to celebrate your successes, listen while you vent, but I will also hold you accountable.

I am interested in the dynamic inside the bedroom (spankings, ropes, chains, etc) as well as outside the bedroom (rules, expectation, honorific, etc).

I will have rules for you and influence on your day to day. We'll negotiate on this, but there may be rules and rituals around clothing, food, bed time, etc. If you break a rule I will punish you.

I will be looking to Train you to please me. I am NOT looking to transform you into a completely different person, but I will be looking to teach you how to please me. This includes how you conduct yourself, how you'll please me sexually, etc.

What I am looking for

I am looking for a kind hearted person with a legitimate and honest desire to submit. Taming a brat is fun, but that should be like spices added to a meal! You do need to be an honest and strong communicator. I will be taking responsibilities for your well being, and I take that seriously. Your part of that is to share honestly about how things are going. You should be open-minded in the bedroom. If you enjoy reading BDSM and Non-consent stories on literotica than our sexual interests are likely to mesh really well!

The idea of making me happy should make you happy. The idea of being cared for should make you feel warm and safe. The idea of being pinned down, spanked, and used should excite you. You need to be able to put aside your

I'm ok if you were raised as a sweet and innocent Christian girl who still can't help but think of sex as dirty, or a liberal and checkered one. However, if you're a huge Survivor or Big Brother fan, it needs to be the one big lie between us!

If you made it this far

If you've read this far and there's a spark of interest take the leap of faith and send me a message - I don't care if this is your first relationship or if you've been a submissive for 20 years! Tell me a little bit about yourself, your interest in submission and BDSM, what you had for supper, and what you do in your spare time! At best we hit it off and magic happens, at worst we each meet a like-minded person and get to chat!

I'm looking forward to hearing from you!