Simple enough, I've grown tired of so many of the conversations I have on here abruptly ending or dwindling down because the other party wanted to get sexual and the conversation was only a means to get there so I'm throwing out a wide net to see if anyone feels the same.

I want to discuss kink, compare experiences/practices, talk about the community, learn about the other person's journey, delve into the non sexual side of both kink and power dynamics, exhange tips on crafters, diy projects or ways to shoot good erotic kink photography. I just want to have enriching conversations around the topic without it being a ruse to get to some form of sexting. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind that there's sexual themes in a discussion, I just don't want it to be the point of it.

I have a slight prefrence for those under 30, mostly because it's usually easier to relate to those close in age but I'm open to anyone who's interested in talking for more than a minute and can do so without being inappropriate. Gender, sexuality, position and so on doesn't matter.

Additional information about me: I'm a dom, I have had some of the best conversations with other doms so this is not to discourage anyone but it will be from that point of view I can relate to things.

I've been kinky all my life and started to interact with the bdsm community when I turned 18. I'm not a veteran by any means but I've spent a lot of time reading, talking to and exploring my interest in both kink and bdsm so I'm not a beginner either.

I have a really broad range of kinks I like and headspaces I enjoy them from. I don't think it's good to judge others on what they like, just how they act. Consent is important, in case anyone feels like my relaxed view is an opening to breach subjects that are illegal. Don't.

I'm bisexual, a relationship anarchist and full of other interests and hobbies outside of the bdsm stuff as well, but I won't get into that since it's not the main point, you can ask about it if we get a conversation going, sometimes things overlap in interesting ways and I don't mind talking about more stuff with the right people.

If you feel like me, yearn for longer relaxed conversations on deep and/or superficial topics please do send a message. If the post is up my inbox is wide open