I know exactly what I want but have exactly zero ideas on how to describe it. It’s like… you know how sometimes you sense a certain smell that is so familiar, so close, so right, but you have no idea why or what it reminds you of? No, is that just my thing? Sigh. Let’s start with the basics then.
I'm looking for a dominant-type man, somewhere around my age, single, and emotionally available.
Now it gets complicated. I want us to become friends first. Not in a meaningless 'we’ve met, I don’t hate you, of course, we are friends' sense, but in a real 'I know you, I trust you with my deepest secrets, I’ll call you to bury that body' sense. And it takes time. I’m not in a rush, are you?
I want to laugh with you, talk about the most random topics, play la2 (bonus points if you’re old or Russian enough to know what this is), share stupid videos, miss you when you’re offline. I want connection first. And once that’s established, well… I identify as a pleasure sub, so it’s pretty much whatever you want, dear :) within limits.
By the way, limits. Not that we’ll encounter any of these during our online friendship thing, but in case it becomes something more — I’m not into age play, degradation, or orgasm control. Also, not a brat and don’t share. And I’m aware that I might just have lost 98% of men here. Almost like it was intentional.
What else? Appearance. I’m ok, attractive, I guess, though more on the cute than hot side. 5'3", 140. Historically my type is tall, lean, and dark-haired, but that’s way down on my list and doesn’t mean much compared to other things.
I think that’s enough for now. If you’re still reading, send me a message or something.
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