TLDR: Dominant male and submissive female in NYC looking for a submissive female for a long term TPE relationship

Looking for a long term situation (if things go well of course) with a woman that likes being controlled in all aspects, not just sexually. I am caring and enjoy obedience so looking for something towards the TPE-pet-servant dynamic (not interested in cages or CNC). Not sharing a picture but happy to jump to a quick video call for verification. Ideally this would evolve into live-in at some point if things go well, we have the space. Need to be ok being used by me alone, by me and my sub, and by others together or alone if I decide to share. My sub is unlikely to dominate you sexually on her own but there will still be a clear hierarchy with you at the bottom and she will definitively enjoy the non sexual aspect of the power dynamic to run errands and help her with stuff. She has some curiosity so it is possible she evolves to dominate you sexually but do not want to give you a false impression that it's very likely. Our relationship is fully vanilla outside of sex and you need to be ok with that. I share her with a male friend with some regularity but I am very careful with STDs so not easy to find people for group play (for more details on that see pinned post in profile).

About you, no kids, no STDs, will ask for specific tests if things advance that much. Need to want and enjoy being used sexually and in regular life, basically TPE. Not interested in someone to have tied and hidden so you need to be versatile enough to pass as a friend when needed and hold a job or run errands (ideally it can be a friendly interaction while maintaining the extreme power dynamic). Fine if you have friends, family, job or other things going on, as long as it is not limiting to our dynamic. Physically do not be fat; big hips, big ass, slim thick, curvy is all good but have to have a nice waist, any size breast is ok but need to be ok with some body modifications and some level of bimbofication if things work long term. Ideally you are experienced with some of this, but I'm ok teaching you and I enjoy introducing submissive women to things. Slutty is better than shy but as long as you are obedient any personality type is fine. Age does not matter as long as I find you attractive. Open to a couple if the woman meets all requirements and the male is fit, at least 5 inches, good at taking orders, and can act as a dom-assistant, sort of a submissive top that will follow my instructions well.

Looking for something real, not a theoretical ideal, so if you think we could have a good interaction even with an imperfect match please write to me here and we can figure it out, chat or messages both work. I might be slow replying, but it just means I've been busy and not checking reddit. Do not want an online interaction so be ready to video relatively fast, I use google meet for that. No need for anything sexual, simply to verify we are all real and discuss more efficiently if we are a good match and then move to in person chatting once you'd be comfortable with that.