I hope you are well. I am interested in a relationship with a Dom preferably in the NC area. I think a casual, slow start would be appropriate though I'd like to find a LTR eventually.

I think I would need a Dom with experience whose values compassion and intelligence. I would describe myself as a beginner sub. While I have often been interested in power dynamics of a relationship, I've only just begun to really focus on it and explore in a dedicated way and feel I need someone with experience to help guide me, though I know I'm drawn to emotional and power dynamics over pain based play. I'm looking for a Dom age 30-50 that I could devote myself to understanding and pleasing.

I am a trans woman in my mid forties. I began my transition a little less than 3 years ago. As I have explored what my transition means for my sexuality and tried to figure out whether I was attracted more to men or to women, I realized that gender did not seem to be the primary thing driving my attraction. You see, I have a deep desire to submit. I think I would be most attracted to someone who values this and me in a holistic way. A Dom who is of at least average fitness, but is well rounded and has deep insight into subs.

My life can be a bit hectic. I have a career, parents and siblings. I am divorced, and my ex-boyfriend and I are in a FWB space primarily for emotional support. I have kids that I look after some of the time. I realize now I've probably given too much power away to people who don't really know how to value the gift properly. Oh well I guess you live and you learn.

I'd say my fitness level is average, I'm 6' or so, reasonably attractive, though I don't pass often if that's important to you, but sometimes I pull it off for a hot minute. I'd expect to exchange photos and talk on the phone to verify identity and mutual attraction after getting to know each other a bit

If you think we would be a good fit please reach out and let me know what your needs and desires are, and why you feel we would be a good fit. Let me know your favorite pet so I know you read all the way to the end.