Hello. I'm looking for a man 26-34 (around my age.) I'm primarily looking for something online at the moment to dip my feet in to test the waters so to speak but I'm open to it developing into something serious or irl.

About me: 29, white, green eyes, bleached hair, overweight (body pics upon request.) I like baking, horror, Pokemon, new age spirituality stuff like tarot and astrology, yoga, houseplants, starting to get into drawing and reading novels. I'm just a normal person basically. I've lost 50lbs and have 20 more I want to lose.

Kinks: facesitting, overstim with toys/hands/tongue etc, affection and praise, being doted on, sleep, light feedism (I'm not into weight gain but I like being cooked for and fed,) body worship and praise, teasing, feet play, nipple play, maybe some soft hucow elements.

Only interested in soft discipline involving things like spanking and having privileges taken away.

I'm also into dumbification- not in a humiliating way, but being told I don't need to worry or think too hard and have all the big decisions made for me in a caregiving type of way. Alternatively, being toyed with and being being teased and given enough orgasms that I become mindless is also appealing. I might be open to mind control and hypnosis but I've never tried it.

Limits: anything gross or scary is a no go (serious harm, poop etc the usual,) pain beyond spanking and biting, humiliation, misogyny, insults, cruelty, anal, choking, other women.

What I'm looking for: Male around 26-34. Compatible with my kinks. Hopefully at least one hobby in common. Gentle, patient, kind, doting. Genuinely enjoys conversing with, being around and taking care of me. Understands reciprocation of care, effort and devotion in a dynamic. Wants to develop a connection, not just use me for ego and sexual gratification. I'm not going to lie, I like a conventionally attractive fit man but I understand being overweight that is rather hypocritical and unrealistic- I'm open to other body types.

And just an fyi.. I'm a leftist, I like astrology, I'm vegan, feminist, environmentally aware "hippie," lgbt ally, etc etc etc. Basically if you routinely enjoy making a mockery of these or you thought all the "sjw owned with fax and logic" type videos on YT in 2016 were a hoot, I'm not your girl lol. I'm also not interested in being a cheaters side piece.

If you're interested, please DM and tell me a bit about yourself, your interests, your kinks, what you're looking for, your favorite pokemon, what title you like, whatever you think is necessary to detail.

Thank you for reading, hope you find what you're looking for 😊