I am an aspiring daddy-dom hailing from the far north west of England who is looking for a little/sub to mentor and pamper with affection and praise. I consider myself more of a gentle, nurturing caregiver who is clingy and possessive, so I'm interested in the emotional, nurturing aspects of DDLG/CGL and thus an intimate dynamic with my little or sub in addition to bedroom fun. I'm also AuDHD, so if you're neurodivergent too then we will get along swimmingly!

Physical characteristics:

• 5'6/168cm tall
• White with average to muscular build
• Short brown hair, beard, and blue eyes
• Cis/AMAB man

Hobbies:

• Passionate music fan, particularly heavy metal and goth. Some favourite bands include The Cure, Killing Joke, Alcest, Nightwish and Slowdive
• Avid reader of non-fiction and fiction, particularly history and horror. Eldritch horrors ascending from the subterranean depths of our oceans makes for good bedtime reading (minus the nightmares)
• Dilettante who enjoys cramming my cranium with an assortment of random facts, never on the winning team of a pub quiz though
• Hiking and day trips to museums and the countryside, ambitions to conquer the lake district fells. Would love to spoil my human with travelling frequently if she's a good girl
• PC gaming and board games; a fan of Dead by Daylight, Civilisation 5, Valheim, Catan, just to name a few. Would love to play a creative game with my human

Kinks (non-exhaustive):

• DDlg/cgl
• Praising (giving)
• Light degradation (giving)
• Body writing
• Light bondage (collars, blindfolds, ropeplay, spanking mostly)
• Anal (giving)
• Assplay (giving)
• Costumes/Roleplay

Who I'm looking for:

A little/sub younger and shorter than me for a long-term dynamic that would ideally culminate in an offline relationship after some time getting to know each other. Someone who is also clingy, possessive and wants regular, daily communication. Someone with similar interests and hobbies, who wants to be disciplined and put in her place while receiving nose kisses, head pats and cuddles. An angel during the day, and a nymphet by night. Ideally, my little would be in the UK too, but I am open to long-distance for the right person, though preferably our time zones are similar for communication purposes.

Dealbreakers:

• I am unwilling to relocate due to career, please bare that in mind if you're not UK-based as this is non-negotiable
• Being someone's play partner; ultimately looking for my forever human, not casual fun, one night stands or sexting
• Open to experimentation but hard limits include toilet play, knife play, ABDL and blood. I am also firmly a dom and not a switch
• Monogamous only, I am not interested in polyamory

I'm open to all ethnicities, races, and most body types, but too overweight is a limit for me (chubby is fine). Message me with your favourite band, book, or game so I know you've read this. Happy to exchange selfies after some correspondence first as while I'm after an emotional and platonic connection to start off with, physical attraction is still important to me. Hope to hear from you soon!