Howdy! I'm a 22-year-old grad student, looking for an experienced Domme (or switch) who can guide me through BDSM in a meaningful, respectful way. I currently live in central Texas around the San Marcos/Kyle area. While I've had some online experiences with other kink-curious individuals, I'm seeking a more experienced domme who understands BDSM culture and can help me explore the submissive side of my sexuality as well as me my introduction into the BDSM community at large.
Sex, for me, is a powerful way to explore identity and personal transformation. I'm intelligent, communicative, and voraciously curious. I seek someone who values the emotional and intellectual aspects of sex.
I love the idea of being used as a tool for your pleasure. I find satisfaction in feeling lesser in a status-driven, rather than humiliating, way. I love the idea of worshipping a woman whose very presence is a gift. I love playing with religious themes of unworthyness, divinity, godhood, and worship but I am open to exploring different styles of submissiveness. I think a combination of reading Anne Rice' "Exit to Eden" and watching Gomez and Morticia from the Addams Family really shaped my sexual identity if that helps describe what I mean.
One of my greatest pleasures is physical touch, particularly giving massages/kissing the entire body form head to toe (shout out Gomez Addams again) I've been working on improving my massage skills because I feel like it's one of the most erotic ways to experience the beauty of the female form. I'm also excited by the idea of exploring non-penetrative sex or more abstract concepts of physical intimacy. While I have masochistic tendencies, I want to build a strong, safe rapport before exploring pain play. I'm of average build, with brown skin and big, beautiful curly hair that I'm very proud of. Though I don't work out regularly, I used to be quite active before COVID. I'm AMAB, and while I often present as masculine, I enjoy embacing my feminine side and feeling androgynous. I even pull off a dress quite well (If I do say so myself!) I have pictures I can send after having a meaningful conversation first. Please only DM if you are serious.
Can't wait to meet you 😊
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