Hello everyone! Is kink an important part of your life? Have you had trouble finding a kinky partner that you also resonate with on a personal and romantic level? Do you ever wonder if you'll have to choose between the two? Then you and I may be kindred spirits.

I've been into kink in some ways before I even knew what sex was. It's an important part of my life and I don't think that I could be happy in a relationship without it. On the other hand I'm a hopeless romantic so I'm hoping that I can find someone that I can experience both with!

In terms of the kinky stuff, I'm most interested in bondage. I love the feeling of being helpless and at someone's whim. Having someone tie me up and torment me and praise me and essentially have their way with me while I'm helpless to do anything about it.

I am a switch however and I enjoy the exact same thing as a dom. The feeling of power and having someone helpless at my feet. I am a people pleaser at heart and so every hit with the flogger will be mirrored with a loving kiss. I also just want to explore with someone who wants to try new things and learn and grow.

For a specific kink list I'd say it's pretty standard. Bondage, corporal punishment, worship, teasing, sensory deprivation, etc. Also I love gags. I have a decent amount of experience so I know what I like but am always wanting to learn and grow.

On the non-kinky side I'm an adventurous nerd. I love history, video games, scuba diving, skiing. I tend to be very open and affectionate. I also have my own place so I'm able to host.

What I'm hoping to find is someone who enjoys kink and is willing to explore the wonderful world of BDSM and who is also interested in a relationship. If you're only looking for a play partner that's ok too but my primary goal is a relationship.

If you've read this far then please shoot me a message. I'm happy to include face pics in a private chat. I'm 6ft1in, 180 lbs, mixed ethnicity.

Hope to hear from you soon!