Hi. I'm not entirely certain on what all I should put here because I inevitably will forget to include something important, so if you have questions, please ask in your DM.

I'm a 33 year old agender femboyish submissive who has a lot of very intense fantasies and niche kinks as well as a lot of more conventional ones. Some of these include pet play, chastity, blackmail, political play, degradation, humiliation, CNC, free use, and many, many more.

I am looking for a dominant for more than just a single evening. I need someone who is able to be consistently available to give me the copious amounts of attention I need, including setting rules, tasks, boundaries, etc. As with any relationship, communication is a big part of it, and because of my mental health struggles, I tend to need more of that than the average person. I'd also like to have some kind of relationship outside the dynamic, but I'm open to that just being gaming buddies, romantic partners, close friends, or whatever.

I am a person who needs structure in my life, and having a dominant set rules and tasks for me to complete is a great way for me to accomplish that. However, due to my living situation and being disabled, I'm not always able to do those things. As such, I'm looking for a dominant who knows how to be firm and push me, but is capable of reading my signals when I'm beyond my limits. Not to get too far into it, but I'm extremely eager to please, so I can be a bad judge of when I've had enough or too much.

My ideal dominant is someone who can push me slightly over the edge of my comfort zone and then follow up with a lot of affection and care. I LOVE being praised. The best way I could describe myself is one of those dogs who's always excited to play half the time and acts like a cat other times.

This is a process, and I'm going to take my time to find a good fit, preferably someone within about 5 years of my age on either side. If you have any questions you want to ask and feel like we might be a good fit, please reach out!