About Me

I'm ideally looking for something long-term. Nothing too serious, just a wife I can live together in kinky bliss with, earning two incomes and having no kids (unless you count cats).

In all seriousness, I mention the no kids thing at the start because at 33, I understand it can be a significant dealbreaker for a lot of women. It has been in a past relationship and honestly, I don't expect it to change.

If you're still reading, and interested in getting to know me, well are you looking for a man in finance, trust fund, 6'5", blue eyes? I've got 2 out of 4 of those, which in this economy...

I do have blue eyes, and I work in the finance industry... as a software engineer (That still counts). I'm only 6'3" however and, though I don't have a trustfund, I am a homeowner. I'm in relatively good shape, and I attend the gym at least once a week when I can. Having someone who I can go with would be a great motivator! Help me reach my bench press goals! I believe that by conventional standards, I'm relatively attractive. More... Tom Hardy or Jason Statham than Brad Pitt, but I guess I'll leave that for you to decide. I'm happy to share photos if you ask.

Outside of the physical, I hope you like nerds. I'm studied Astrophysics and Software Engineering at University. I'm basically Moss from The IT Crowd, but without the fantastic hair. I play Dungeons & Dragons, enjoy video games and board games, reading and writing books (typically Sci-Fi and Fantasy) and chilling at home with my Cat. I'm pretty introverted and though I do enjoy spending time with my small group of friends, I'm typically found at home most evenings.

Assuming you're still interested, here's where I talk about kinks. I'm going to keep it short and sweet. I'm a Dom, with no switch tendencies at all. I would prefer the role of Daddy Dom in any dynamic, but it's not a hard requirement. I like giving pleasure as much as I enjoy a bit of sadism, with the use of toys, paddles, ropes and restraints, and plenty more. Choking is a big turn on for me, or at the very least having my hands around your neck. I won't go into all of my kinks here, save some for later. Hopefully that's enough to give you a good idea.

About You

As I mentioned above, you're hopefully not a parent and not looking for kids. That's a big one so I'm putting it first. I have no intention of ever having kids. It's a personal choice and it's not ever likely to change, I'm afraid. If that's a dealbreaker for you, I completely understand.

I'm hoping to find someone who matches my kinks, obviously. That's why I'm posting here. However, I also want a relationship with someone who can be my best friend and lover. I'm a romantic at heart and above all I'm looking to fall in love with you and build a deep and meaningful relationship. To that end, I'd prefer it if we have at least some hobbies in common. I like my own space, and ideally, you would too, but we should enjoy spending time together and have common interests so we can have regular date nights. Be it board games, video games, films, D&D, or simply reading quietly together on the sofa with the cat. (That's a point... You must be a cat lover. I have the world's most adorable cat so you had better love him, too).

If you're a smoker, I'd prefer it if you're at least trying to quit. Smoking is a big turn-off for me, and I don't see myself being in a long-term relationship with someone who has no intention to quit. I've lost family to lung cancer and have no intention of going through that again.

When it comes to kinks, you're a submissive with zero switch tendencies. You enjoy giving over complete control in a trusted and safe environment, allowing your brain to zone out and go to a thoughtless space where you can just exist in the physical at that moment. There are no specific kinks I would want or expect (though an oral fixation would be exceptional).

As I mentioned above, I like pleasure and pain equally, so you're ideally the right mix of Good Girl and Naughty Brat. You enjoy being subservient, but sometimes the urge for attention might overtake you and you can't help acting out for Daddy's attention. However, after some serious spanking or being pinned against a wall, your legs should go weak and you're ready to behave again.

What to expect if we talk

• No unsolicited dick pics.
• No belligerent or otherwise dickish behaviour.
• No demands for nudes.
• Judgement-free kink discussion.
• Friendly banter!

This has been a long post, and assuming you've read it all, I'm hoping you'll be interested in reaching out to get to know me better. Please do send me a DM so we can start chatting.