I embrace the rules based structure and discipline of BDSM and expect the same in my sub. The lifestyle has allowed me to become the best version of myself - assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed. My ability to connect with a sub and build deep intimacy is crucial to the experience. I require a sub I can invest my time, energy, and resources to better both of us - my reward is your submission, loyalty, and the satisfaction of seeing you become more than you currently are. I am experienced with trauma informed kink and have found most are not truly broken.
Me: I am attractive, physically fit, assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed. Kink wise, I enjoy roleplay, DDlg (without extreme ageplay), rule based dynamics, restraints/bondage, CNC, and have experience in all. Vanilla wise, I enjoy history/diversity/culture/travel, writing, gaming, and anything outdoors - I am at the gym daily and a hiking fanatic. Professionally, I am PhD educated, self-employed, and can work from almost anywhere. I have flexibility in travel and time.
You: See BDSM as more than a kink, are loyal, playful, and adventurous. I demand serious intent, of course we are going to have mind blowing scenes, but I require more than that. Be prepared to submit to my ground rules of absolute honesty, communication, and mutual respect. Please be willing to meet within a reasonable amount of time. Be willing to move to a secure communication app. I prefer you to be located in the SouthEast US, for the right connection willing to travel especially to places that interest me.
If interested, I have a vetting process to ensure compatibility, the first step is you DMing me your interest in my approach.
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