Pining over a cheesy title aside; hello! I will honestly admit I'm pretty horrible at writing profiles like these and can end up coming off as fairly verbose - so I will do my best to keep this short!

In earnest, I don't particularly post on Reddit and mainly use it as a means to just browse and lurk; so this is my first real post!

About

I have a fair amount of experience in the BDSM space, mostly towards online; with a few years of IRL experience. I've been described as a "Pleasure Dom" or "Service Top"; but I like to tell myself I'm a greedy and sadistic top. The duality of man. I like providing pleasure to my partner, alongside fair amounts of humiliation, degradation, teasing, and praise. I tend to push my partner's limits and do my best to both respect them and challenge them - looking only to enhance and deepen the dynamic and relationship we may have. I like to honor trust, communication, and honesty as good tenants to found any arrangement we may have on; as I do much like others, hope to find that special one by throwing out these feelers.

Physical

I'm about 6'3" and around 180-ish pounds; working in reverse from losing a fair amount of weight. I've got a bit of a "dad bod" and a small amount of looser skin around my stomach. I'm a little sensitive about it, but I figure I should be honest about it considering the drastic weight loss. I'm not super fit, I'm not super buff, I'm some weird fiddle in the middle. At least I'm tall, though! Oh. Short dark brown hair, and I usually keep my beard-line trimmed down to stubbly levels, while keeping a small moustache. It can probably be removed upon request, though. Size 13 shoe. It doesn't matter, I just thought it'd be funny to put in here.

Extra About

I like movies, laughs, video games, tabletop RPGs, sci-fi, fantasy, and I'm generally a nerd past all the sexual stuff. I watch films, I play video games, and generally just enjoy my free time outside of work when I can. I don't work a TON, but when I do I tend to wear myself out - so I appreciate the time in my own space. I'm naturally a bit of an introvert, but I blab a lot when interest is caught. I should add, I am 4/20 friendly but do not push that lifestyle onto any of my partners. I simply ask that they accept it and I will do my best to keep it out of their way (or their nose in person). I'm also a bit of a clown and fairly hypersexual. I've often wondered if there was a correlation. I tend to try to keep comedy out of the bedroom, but I do my best to have fun. If it involves giggles and laughs while we're depraved? So be it.

What I'm Searching For

I'm looking for frankly, an online-only to start arrangement and to see where it goes. If we click and suddenly realize we have to cross state lines to enhance our dynamic? I'm down; but I prefer online due to my personal preferences and issues with in-person things in the past. I find that a strong online arrangement preemptively helps a lot more when two people decide to meet, in my experience. I don't have any particular types in mind aside from people I connect with. I'm attracted to feminine forms and features, so if I click with a sissy, I wouldn't mind at all.

Myself, I am primarily looking to explore kinks and other fantasies with a potential partner. I like hearing about what you like and understanding those fantasies; but I also enjoy the contrast of my own kinks, and watching someone share in them and enjoy them as much as I do (and in some cases more)! I suppose in a way, I am both a service top, and one greedy to explore a myriad of kinks and fantasies, finding more about myself and the things I enjoy. I attribute it to the hypersexual bit. I am currently SINGLE, and I am not looking for an arrangement that isn't monogamous if things progress to a point. I can get fairly possessive if things call for it. I'm not particularly picky about age - so long as you are above the age of 18. Though for long-term agreements I'd prefer someone around my age.

In shorter terms, I'd like someone willing to be sexually adventurous, explorative, and have fairly sexual talks on a regular basis. I have come to grips that I do just enjoy pleasure, and I'd simply like to be clear about that. Tasks, control, communication, teasing, earned praise, power play, things of that nature are some dynamics to expect. If you'd like a shorter, more approachable list:

Kinky Things

I have an unhealthy enjoyment of anal; and I love giving tasks to edge or pleasure, while praising upon completion. I love roleplay. I enjoy both punishment and praise in earned and equal measure, while maintaining both a guiding hand and a firm paddle(?). I enjoy wax, casual aspects of footplay, adore body inspections, poses, things of that nature. I enjoy drug play, but only with safer substances such as marijuana. A big portion of my enjoyment is hearing what you like, want to explore, and guiding you through that experience - making sure you enjoy it as much as possible. I should probably add that while it's not necessary, nor would I really push for it nowadays - most of my dynamic experience lies in the m/s or dd/lg space. That is mostly at the request at my sub though, as I'm only interested in lighter variants of that play unless things deepen. I do enjoy contracts, but nothing until much later. I guess I should say I also like weirder stuff? Though that usually depends on the person's definition. We can talk!

Apologies for the novel; but if you read to the end - I'd love for you to send me your favorite animal. That'd be a great way to start.