For me, Reddit is a way to genuinely connect with people, not really into the typical kink-social media scene. That’s what this space is for, after all.

About me: I’m 32, 6 ft, fit, dirty blonde (fair-haired, for what it’s worth), driven in both my career and life. I’m confident, emotionally intelligent, a bit of a charming weirdo, and I know myself well—and how to read others too. I’m a family-oriented, social guy who’s comfortable managing a healthy dynamic. I love to laugh and be silly, but also value meaningful conversations. I’ve been lucky enough to travel the world, although I’ve yet to pick up a second language! Oh, and I’m a proud baker—three sourdough loaves and counting. 😊

About you: You’re a woman in your early or mid-20s, ambitious, and ready to build a dynamic life with a skilled and experienced Dom by your side. You’re adventurous, not just in the bedroom, and understand the importance of communication. Fit, healthy, and passionate about something in your life, you love deep late-night conversations. You embrace your submissive side but aren’t easily swayed, preferring to submit to the right partner—someone who can take you deeper than just sex.

Kink-wise, I’m all about power dynamics and control. I want to understand you fully and use that knowledge to heighten your sexual experience. A good girl on my arm to meet friends or family, and behind closed doors, an eager slut. You should expect to be dripping, often.

What I’m offering is a chance to shape you into a perfect submissive, owned and collared. It’s not always sexual—it can be as simple as etiquette, hygiene, or fitness, but everything is tied to control and deep psychological intimacy. I thrive on finding your darkest fantasies and bringing them to life.

With six years of experience, I’ve had it all: intense D/s dynamics, complex rules, passion, boredom, mind-blowing sex, and moments of growth. But while kink is important, it’s not my whole life—family, friends, passions, and spirituality come first. That said, kink is something I prefer not to live without. I’m seeking something real, lasting, and rooted in growth. I won’t compromise my values, even when it comes to mixing power and sex, and I expect the same from you.

I lean into the caring yet demanding role of a Daddy Dom. I enjoy pain play, free use, tasteful humiliation, and controlling the finer details like wardrobe and etiquette. Femininity is very attractive to me, but I don’t let it define our dynamic. Outside the bedroom, I’m a softer, nurturing leader, but I always maintain control.

I’m looking for something real-life, ideally in or around New York. If this post is still up, I’m still searching. If this resonates with you, reach out.