I've been looking for my girl for a very long time. Ever since I discovered the kinky part of myself existed nearly 20 years ago, I have had a dream of the lifestyle and submissive I've wanted. Over time, I've interacted with a number of women, gained a lot of experience and knowledge, and learned more about myself, what I want, and what I need. But none of them were the girl I was looking for. I have been discouraged and downhearted, as my search never seems to end - but I will never give up hope that she is still out there waiting for me. I believe in her, I believe in that future happiness, and I will never stop striving for it. Could you be the one I'm looking for?

Allow me to introduce myself, first of all. My name is Curtis. I'm 40, 6 feet tall with chocolate brown hair just starting to thread with silver, eyes the grey of the sea under clouds, and a smile that often twists in a wry grin, or easy laughter. I've got something of a dad bod, but I'm actively and successfully getting in shape this year and I'm committed to it for the future. I've got strong but nimble hands, a clever mind, and a sexy voice. I'm the best version of myself I've ever been, and I'm just getting better with time.

I'm intelligent, patient, kind, thoughtful, and mentally and emotionally mature. I'm supportive and caring, romantic and affectionate. I genuinely enjoy helping others, encouraging them, and doing my part to maket hem the best they can be. I'm monogamous, single, and child-free. I've got a stable job and a stable life, and drama has no place in or around me. I'm an honest and consistent communicator, and I don't play emotional games - you will always know where you stand with me. I'm looking for someone who craves that kind of peace and stability in their man, and who in return can bring more joy and excitement and energy to mine.

My interests tend more towards the nerdy side - I enjoy board games and reading books, painting miniatures and rolling dice. I have a weakness for cooking shows and documentaries, but I also like action and comedy and mystery and sci-fi and fantasy and more. I can't do horror, though. Feel free to watch it without me, and come to me for cuddles afterwards, though. I enjoy cooking when I have the time and energy, and I'm decent at it; and I really like trying new foods and restaurants. I like animals, and I especially love cats. I've fostered kittens for a number of years. I enjoy all kinds of music, and like being introduced to new things there too. I like roadtrips, oceans, and the tranquility of mountains over a still lake. You and I don't have to share all the same interests - but some would be nice! As well as a willingness to take an interest in experiencing each other's.

As a Dom, I'm a mix of things. Because I am kind and caring and romantic and like giving praise, I call myself a Daddy Dom. But I'm also unquestionably a sadist. I like causing physical pain and mental predicaments and setting your head whirling. I never go to the point of being abusive, though. I believe the mental side of kink is the most important and most powerful, and I excel at using words and visuals to get you into the right mental state for incredible arousal. I crave verbal interaction during play. I talk a lot, and want someone who does the same. Who is able to tell me how she's feeling, and what she wants, who begs and pleads and moans and expresses herself. My greatest pleasure as a Dom is to find out everything you like and want, every fantasy you have, and then make them come true. To craft an amazing experience for you that transports you physically and mentally beyond anything you thought possible, and leaves you worshipping me for how well I treat you. Just some of my kinks: orgasm control/denial/overstimulation/chastity, bondage, impact play, tasks, discipline, toys, anal training, CNC/freeuse, collaring, wax, discreet public play, biting, age gaps and size gaps, face fucking, power exchange, and more. I'd like to share as many of these with you as possible, but I will always respect your limits, your preferences, your consent, and your safewords. I care deeply about safety, and love giving aftercare. My limits are pretty standard - scat, blood, vomit, animals, underage, illegal, permanent harm, etc.

So what kind of person am I looking for? I'm not looking for a slave, a puppet, a bimbo, or a child. I'm looking for a real woman, who's smart and capable and has her life together - but craves the peace and joy that submission brings. I want an amazing woman who chooses to submit to me because she knows I will bring her the fulfillment she truly needs. I want someone who's looking for both pleasure and pain, sweetness and strictness, romance and rough sex. I want someone willing to try new things, in kink and in life. I want someone with a sense of humor, who's able to communicate her needs, whatever they may be. I want someone who's looking for long-term commitment, who wants to build a life together eventually, in person. But I know that finding my special person will be hard, so I'm expecting to start on line, and move forward from there. I'm open to anywhere in the PST-CST time zones - maaaaybe EST for a really special connection, but otherwise the time difference is too much. I'm not too picky about age, as long as the maturity levels and life expectations match up, but probably no younger than early 20s. When it comes to body shape, I'm pretty open as well, though there has to be some measure of mutual attraction.

If you're looking for a Dom who respects and loves you, but also wants to treat you like a dirty slut - who enjoys hurting you and then treating your welts afterwards - who will praise and support and guide and affirm you in your life, as well as discipline and correct and punish you when you stray - come to me. If you're looking for a kinky dynamic that pervades your life, where cuddles on the couch can turn spicy, where a passing kiss can leave you wet, where my hands go where they want with your eager welcome - come to me. If you're looking to build a life of shared interests and experiences, of romance and adventure and cute animals where you get to wear a pretty collar too - come to me. If you've been looking for so long for a Dom who offers you some of everything, who is patient and doesn't want to rush into sex, who communicates often and well and doesn't ghost, who is both cruel and kind; and you've been losing hope because a man like that just doesn't seem to exist - come to me. I am real, and I am all of these things and more. And I've been waiting for you, my darling.