If you see this post, I'm still accepting messages. Don't be timid or feel you need to perfectly match this message. Desires and partners come in many forms. Take a chance, I promise I will reply to you eventually.
Hey there! :) I am a sweet, intelligent, playful, nerdy, athletic Pleasure Daddy Soft Dom, looking for a like-minded, silly sweetheart who is fun, eager, enthusiastic, clingy, affectionate, and obessive like me.
I desire a meaningful and rewarding dynamic focused on mutual pleasure, mental intimacy, and warm, friendly conversation. I am passionate and positive about life and know exactly who I am. I have a lot to give, and I want to build mutual trust, connection, and healthy obsession with a woman who shares my love for kink, kindness, and wholesome communication.
Ideally you are hypersexual and insatiable too and love to please (and be pleased) as much as I do… but maybe it's your dirty little secret, and you're longing for someone to finally unlock and unleash that naughty carnal hunger you have been starving to satisfy. Let me help you, guide you, teach you, mold you, corrupt you... whatever you need me to do, to help you become the perfect submissive, craving to give me pleasure as much as I crave to feed it to you in return.
Highlights
Mutual effort and reciprocation. Eager, enthusiastic, clingy, horny, affectionate, obsessive. Playful banter and flirty teasing. Match my energy, I’ll match yours. Consistent communication & regular play time (as time and schedules permit; quickies and teasing are always an option).
Me
- I am 28, 6’2” tall, former competitive athlete, attractive: dark features, freckles, big red lips
- Patient, kind, confident, playful, generous, sweet, [emotionally] intelligent, passionate, nerdy, creative, curious, love learning and trying new things, very open minded and eager to grow and expand my perspective
- Down to earth, very good with words & communication & teaching, very secure and self assured, INFJ Business & entrepreneurially minded, strong work ethic, big ambition and imagination
- Hypersexual, insatiable, kinky Pleasure Daddy [soft] Dom
- I am experienced with online dynamics, and being a dominant.
- I am in the US, and my timezone is EST. I tend to be most free around 9pm EST, but I’m available to message back and forth throughout the day, and sometimes even sneak away…
Hobbies
Swimming, working out, hiking / nature, playing some sports, traveling, dancing, snowboarding… reading, writing, drawing, baking, cooking, piano, coding, video games, board games, game design / worldbuilding, TTRPGs, movies / TV series / anime, technology, psychology, etc.
Kinks
Reciprocated enthusiasm and focus on partner's pleasure, oral, praise/worship, orgasm control/edging, overstimulation/gooning, dirty talk, dirty names, spanking, [mutual] masturbation, light pain, light choking, breeding, cumplay, sexting, semi public/risky play (aka covert exhibitionism), teasing, toys, tasks (to list a few)
Limits
Age regression, animals, urine, scat, diapers, rimming, blood, violence/abuse, cucking, femdom, etc.
You
- 18–30, give or take. Not super picky here, as long as it makes sense.
- Submissive. While I enjoy playful teasing, I prefer someone more service/pleasure oriented rather than a full on brat. I want to have fun with you, I don’t want to have to put you in your place every single time we talk.
- Ideally high sex drive, loves sexting, affectionate and expressive, sexually open and curious to explore, able to adapt and be flexible, eager to learn about me and put in effort, and enjoy giving / receiving attention & affection.
- Puts in effort, matches my energy, is friendly and chatty, an eager and enthusiastic and obsessive type…. Basically if you’re going to reply with 3 words whenever we talk, and have the enthusiasm of an 80 year old asexual man, I don’t know if we will have much compatibility.
- Someone who resonates with some if not all of the following: genuine, warm-hearted, compassionate, sweet, thoughtful, intelligent, open minded, curious, passionate, enjoys talking about different things, puts in effort, has various goals, dreams, and hobbies, and is good with communication, texting, etc. Basically, be a good, decent, human bean. Who maybe likes masturbating a lot, like me.
Dynamic
- Despite the rather serious tone, I want something light hearted, pleasant, fun, playful, encouraging, productive, and even a bit sweet. :) Online. Mostly text based to start. Primarily sexual. This is the focus, that guides and governs our interaction and connection. But lots of non-sexual too.
- Every dynamic looks a bit different. I want us to get to know each other and build it our way.
- Setting a loose schedule for when we can chat/play.
- Emotional, mental, sexual reciprocation.
- Verification required at some point, once comfortable. I have a simple but guaranteed method.
- Establishing safety and comfort — discussing kinky concerns and “best practices”, including but not limited to consent, safewords, subspace, subdrop, subfrenzy, etc.
What I Am NOT Looking For
- married women
- drama
- dishonesty
- immaturity (nothing to do with age)
- ghosting
- marriage / moving in together
- men / dick pics
Message Me
Send a Chat (or DM). Please include:
- A bit about yourself
- What you liked about my post
- Why you think we might be a good match
- Anything else you would like to share
Bonus points if you include a picture. I’ll reciprocate :)
I don't expect you to be perfect, nor should you. That being said, effort is obvious. If you want to stand out, going above and beyond will be rewarded. ;)
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