It's hard not being vanilla, don't you agree? At some point in this lifestyle, the way we view a relationship starts to shift. The human always comes first, of course; D/S is only a fantasy we dip our toes in. But when you're in the thick of it, it ceases to be a simple naughty bedroom activity. Rules, protocol, the feeling of being owned, being made to wear a collar to show it, relying on someone, giving them power over you. It's all a fantasy, but when two people get to know and trust each other, that roleplay can get pretty good. A tinder date who thinks fuzzy cuffs are taboo just doesn't do much for you. And yet there are few venues to find people with your particular mindset, especially if you're not in a huge city. The dominant and the submissive both understand this struggle.
I'm that dom who isn't satisfied tugging on a leash just for the hell of it. If you're that sub who isn't satisfied unless the collar at the end of the leash means something personal to you, maybe we're a match.
About me: I'm 6'2 slim build. Mostly introverted personality, many nerdy passions including film, anime, history, nature, travel. Favorite kinks include rules, discipline, denial, overstimulation, collars, cuffs, pet play, power exchange, and most of the things often associated with those. Flexible dom style from strict to encouraging and cuddly. Limits include most of the normal stuff. Based in Maryland but searching around the DMV, Virginia / Nova . Will share SFWpics if we're both liking the vibe.
Also, this takes patience. If this post is still up, feel free to message :)
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