I'm trying something new with this prompt because my other prompts haven't turned into anything lasting. This one is fairly open-ended: I just want to connect with somebody in a vaguely kinky, power dynamics sort of way in a manner that feels genuine, organic, and maybe a dash manipulative.

Obviously this sounds simple to say, but is vague and harder to produce than one might think. I recognize I am difficult to connect with in this manner so if I dissuade or frustrate you, I apologize genuinely. What I need is a certain vibe where ideally, my partner just takes initiative and understands me and how to push my buttons. That only comes from a simple conversation, so I'd like us to start with that.

I am intentionally leaving this prompt vague because looking for specifics hasn't helped at all in the past, but if you want to see some other prompts I've posted you're free to read my profile to see. To clarify a little bit of the kind of person I'm looking to connect with, here are some quick bullet points:

DO:

• Use DMs or Reddit chat; I slightly prefer chat just because it is faster. I am fine moving to other platforms later if we connect.
• Be any gender or sexuality; I don't care.
• Include age/gender in your opening message so I have an idea of who I'm talking to.
• Be older. Ideally, a lot older. Nothing against people my age, but remember I'm looking for a particular vibe and I find people my age generally cannot produce that vibe.
• Be articulate. Know proper grammar/spelling and use it. This is such a simple thing but when we are communicating through text, it's super important. At least, it is to me.
• Be thoughtful and show interest in me and learning how I work. Ask questions, draw me in, lull me a little bit.
• Be respectful and kind. I will not respond and will immediately report/block you if you send lewd messages or messages that amount to sexual harassment. I want to be turned on, but that isn't the way to do it.
• Have a "Daddy" vibe. Talk down to me a little, patronize me a bit. Do it in a gentle, respectful way, but use words and command my respect to establish the power dynamic. This is very important to me. I respond best to this, provided you are kind about it.

DO NOT:

• Use emojis or emoticons. I fucking hate this in kink discussions and it will turn me off with WARP SPEED. I cannot emphasize this enough. I cannot get into any kind of a fun kink mood if every single message you send is full of smiley faces and hearts.
• Ask for pics, and do not send them to me. At least not with a first conversation. I'm fine supplying all the pics you want once we have a rapport and I'm attached to you, but I find it is so rare I find what I'm looking for that I'm not looking to bring looks into the equation until I believe I'm getting what I want.
• Ask what I look like and do not tell me what you look like. Doing this (or asking for pics) indicates you're less interested in the mental, cerebral, subtle things that I'm looking for and just want to wack off to the hot college girl you met online. You will know what I look like when you prove to me you're worthy of it.
• Forget to include the word "serendipity" in your opening message so I know you read this and aren't just sending me some canned bullshit.
• Ask for voice chat. Same deal with the pics: I'm fine with doing voice chats later, but not for a first conversation. Let's build some rapport first, then I am fine with hopping on voice.
• Send one-word openers or something that amounts to "hi how are you". Do not copy/paste a response you've sent to countless other women on here either. I'm not looking for walls of text, just a sentence or two at least to entice me and create a genuine opening.
• Be boring. This comes in many forms, but generally people are the most boring if they start demanding I take my panties off immediately or something. Generally, the most boring people reveal themselves to be fake doms who just want me to do what they say just because. Boring is the worst, and I will mock you for it.

Follow those guidelines, and there are many kinks and things I would be open to discussing. Ultimately I want something deeper, more subtle, cerebral, real, and honestly a bit dark triad and toxic. Let's see if this helps me find it.

Shoot me a message if you'd like to connect. I'm Olivia, by the way. Thanks for reading.