Hi. I am gender fluid, so I flow between identifying as male and female but I am AMAB. My partner is very vanilla and we don't do anything very often, but we are Polly so I am allowed to seek others to fulfill different needs.

I'm looking for someone to take control of my orgasms and pleasure, and consequently my mind. To play with me and punish me and bend me to their will. Maybe control what material I'm allowed to view.

I'm looking for something fairly regular possibly taking control for days or weeks at a time, or at least leaving me with instructions for periods of time.

As said before I'm gender fluid so feel free to engage me as either gender or switch between them. I am pansexual and mostly attracted to feminine aesthetics and form but I am fairly flexible on that and equipment matters little to me. I am 6'1 with a fairly skinny athletic build. And long straight near black hair.

Biggest relevant kinks. Not demanding all of these by any means but giving a guide on how to most easily make me melt.

The obvious ones are chastity (mental and physical), edging and denial, and orgasm torture.

Feet and shoes - (boots, heels, nylons)

Petplay - make me your dumb puppy. collars and leashes, ears, tail and sleeping on the floor.

Hypnosis - make my mind belong to you (I use shibby says files with some regularity if you want to use any triggers from her)

Degradation - call me stupid and worthless, call me all kinds of degrading names, tease me for my every fault. I want to be bullied and teased (Limit, being laughed at is a bit of a trauma trigger for me so please avoid that)

Bondage - I'll do self bondage for you. Toys, ropes, cuffs, whatever you would like.

Anal -pegging, plugs, vibrators.

This list is my no mean exhaustive and I am always willing to consider trying something new. If you have any questions please feel free to ask.