M47 [m4M] #online - seeking Dom for accountability
I am looking for an attentive Dom to help me with accountability for sticking with a mostly established schedule.
I have ADHD and I struggle with motivation in a big way. A few years ago while serving a Dom online I accidently discovered that where I lacked motivation to change aspects of myself or to complete tasks when I was no longer the sole motivator, I was suddenly able to do things I never would have, and it was easy to find that motivation.
I currently have a schedule and plan that for the most part works, I just need a Dom to enforce it.
So this is how it would work. I would share with you my google calendar and taskboard so you could see everything I am doing and all the tasks that I have scheduled in real time so you know when I have marked something as complete. Tasks require picture or video proof. Failure to accomplish tasks without a reason you find suitable would be met with punishments of your choosing as long as they do not cross established limits.
That's really it.
My kinks are extensive and always evolve. The core kinks are control, humiliation, degradation, being bullied, aftercare, & attention, to name a few.
Hard Limits are:
-Nothing that can sully my work relationships. I am a people leader and people expect a certain amount of decorum from me.
-Consent must be fully understood.
-Excessive pain or gore. Don’t get me wrong, I like a bit of pain and I’ve recently discovered that I have a much higher pain tolerance than I thought I did.
-No changes to my outer appearance that I don’t agree to.
-No limiting my contact with other people.
-No women.
So if this interests you and you would like to know more or have questions, feel free to message me.
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