Hi! I am looking to find someone to build not only friendship with, but ultimately create a space we can use to escape our lives for a little bit. In life, whether it be work or relationships, I tend to take the lead, and as nice as that can be, I find myself always craving the opposite. Having a more masculine look, I think it is really exciting to challenge the norm and find someone who will allow me to give up control. 

What I am looking for:

I am looking for a gentle and caring domme who wants to make me feel cared for. I am not looking for someone who is very strict, or looking for any kind of hardcore dynamic. My life can get very busy, so a 24/7 thing is not in the cards. I will want to get to know you a little bit before going right into anything. I find building an open and fun relationship makes everything so much more fun, and having some initial dialogue can help to build a good foundation. I want to have engaging and authentic communication, so being able to have a good back and forth with you is important. I expect you to respect my boundaries and limitations, as I will always respect yours. 

As for kinks, my big ones are edging, joi, exhibitionism (mostly just being watched) and pegging. I am more than willing to explore more if they interest me, this is just a short list (and not hard requirements). Big deal breakers for me include chastity, denial, feminization, or anything extreme. I don’t want to dwell on this part too much as I feel this will be something we discuss and build together. 

About me:

Outside of what I mentioned, I am an introvert at heart. I would take a nice night inside cuddling with a movie than going out to a bar. I enjoy music a lot, as well as getting my hands dirty with a car now and then, or sitting back and playing some video games. Looks wise, I am bearded, short hair, have light but natural body hair, and tattoos. I am 5’9” 165lbs, I make an emphasis to eat well and take care of myself, but still have fun and enjoy life. I am not a gym guy, but have been getting back into doing some home workouts. I understand attraction can be very important for this, and I am more than willing to share a pic or two for you to see if I am your thing. 

If any of my rambling seemed interesting to you, or if you have any questions, feel free to send me a DM and we can chat. If you message me and you realize I am not quite what you are looking for, do not feel pressured or obliged to continue. I would much rather you be up front and honest with me, it saves us both some trouble :) Thanks for reading and I look forward to talking with you!