I am Dominant in my life - 40 years old, successful, confident in my handle of life, physically fit and creating my path. I feel I am myself when I am controlling the situation and this tends to extend to my personal life. I find having a sub to be incredibly grounding and fulfilling. Taking care of my sub and having her take care of my needs truly brings out the best in me. Moreover, it is an incredible turn on.
I'm patient, thoughtful, cautious with my assumptions, kind, stern when turned on, curious, light of heart and also deep, and have been hurt in enough ways that I understand the importance of tenderness, of vulnerability.
First, and foremost I require an intellectual connection to make a physical connection possible.
I tend to get along best with a sub who is educated, attentive, intelligent, fit, kind, and calming, I am looking for a sub who is supportive and is looking for more than just sex (though that is obviously an important aspect of all this). In other words, I am looking for a sub who is interested in having giving up control over some non-sexual aspects of life.
Respectful of all limits and boundaries
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