TDLR: Daddy Dom looking for an intelligent, passionate sub to cherish and do bad things to.

Tall (6’’1”/1.85m), fit, deep voice (I get told I should read erotica for a living frequently, oddly enough ), blue-eyed, and generally sort of germanic looking. Educated and overworked, successful in my career and generally described as having large dog energy.

My ideal partner is likely between the ages of 18-30 (although no need to be exclusionary) - sane, educated, kind, curious, takes care of themselves physically\HWP, and of course, submissive and kinky. I’m attracted to passionate, thoughtful women who also want me to discipline, train, use, and guide them. I'm an experienced Dom with several long term D/s relationships and numerous short term scenes under my belt. Working with new to moderately experienced girls who are interested in exploring their submissive tendencies in a safe environment is what I’m looking for right now.

I think physical chemistry is critical - but very much only the first step as the richness of any relationship goes far beyond that. I want a partner who is my intellectual equal - although I want to be control and make you my obedient little toy - I want to exchange ideas with my partner, be challenged by them in our conversations daily, and cherish them and their accomplishments.

Caring Sadist (not particularly extreme) / Daddy Dom is the easiest way to describe my preferences and needs. Supporting and caring for my partner is critical - I want to be a net positive in all aspects, not just kink. Generally flexible and open - specific activities, chores and routines are tools to foster a particular dynamic, which is what I care about more than a detailed kinklist, although I have my favorites:

Spanking, teasing and orgasm control, anal training, choking, bondage, TPE and degradation. Really enjoy giving rules and tasks for my sub to follow and taking control over her life until you’re completely dependent on me.

There are definitely aspects of DDLG and more traditional D/s that enjoy - it's just about intimacy, trust, and play, regardless of what archetypes we're using, and have had happy dynamics in both spaces.

I’d like to start off with an online relationship but I’d be more than willing to meet if things go well or even live together in the long term. Regarding the online dynamic, please be willing to share photos and videos (I will be too).

Passionate cook, coffee addict, sailor, hiker, enthusiastic but mediocre athlete, wine and history nut, and general goof. Good at giving large, fluffy dogs (best kind of dog) neck rubs (and my scalp massage / neck rub game isn't too terrible with people). Engaged in politics , literature, and a range of other topics that may or may not be conducive to my blood pressure.

Also, since it seems de rigeur, a few quick reviews from friends & family:

He's much taller than he appears on Zoom, roughly as irritating - Co-workers

We used to think you were a partner at the firm until you opened your mouth - Co-workers

The piano would be much better without the singing... don't quit your day job- Dad

He's actually a really good cook, but the surveys after dinner parties are pretty weird - my friends

Don't you have something better to do? What's this for again? WHAT? - Mom

Shoot me a message if this ad got you excited - maybe this will be the beginning of something beautiful.

Cheers!