I (42M) am seeking a Dom for my former submissive. Unfortunately I can no longer have her, and I'd like to ensure that she's in good hands and well taken care of.

She's intelligent, beautiful, exceptionally funny and delightfully bratty. Delicious accent. Extremely fun. Remarkably compliant for a brat when she's in subspace. Open minded. Wants nothing more to be held down and used and bred and then cuddled afterwards. Needy in a way that makes you feel wanted. Capable of being incredibly affectionate. Has a laugh that will have you tripping over yourself trying to be funny.

She's still recovering from a bad experience with an abusive, predatory shithead of an ex-dom. She doesn't need kid gloves (and actually adores some consensual meanness and humiliation), but if you're not going to work to systematically build her up as part of your dynamic, you're not the man for her.

Looking for an age range of 25-45ish. In person (or sometimes in person) in South Africa is probably ideal, but online can work if you do regular phone calls. Make sure she takes care of herself. Drinks her water. Goes to bed at a reasonable time. Practices self care. If you're not smart and very adept at brat wrangling, she's going to eat you alive. If you think brats are simply disobedient bad subs or can be "broken" then keep scrolling. If your idea of aftercare is rolling over and going to sleep after you get yours, then you can go ahead and fuck right off.

I'll be vetting all applicants before you talk to her, so keep that in mind before you bring low effort responses or dick pics because I will 100% be an asshole about it. I'll do my best to respond to all reasonable messages in a relatively timely fashion, although be advised she has the right to refuse anyone who doesn't pass her vibe check so you may not get a response.