Hey there. Posting on here trying to meet my person. Why reddit as opposed to online dating? Honestly, I just want to be upfront about my desires. I'm looking for someone I can cuddle with, but also drive wild in the bedroom. I'm a sucker for some good old-fashioned romance, and really hope to build a kinky relationship. Think Rom-Com starring a pair of nymphos, with a sprinkle of adventure for good measure.

I ultimately want a strong relationship with a woman I truly care for. And someone I'm excited to spend time with, whether it's on special dates together, or just enjoying each other's company on our days off. You know, like dancing to vinyl records while we cook together, getting lost in our books on the couch cuddling, grabbing coffee before we hit the gym, or taking lazy strolls through the trails on a Sunday afternoon. I love going to concerts (predominantly rock, but some house/electronic shows too). I also love to hike and camp, and while I can't say I live in the mountains, if that's your thing, I could definitely use more of it.

In terms of kink, I'm more of a pleasure Dom/gentle Dom. I take control, with a focus on sensuality and mental domination - I've listed out some kinks below. I find I dominate from a place of true authenticity when I'm with someone I have feelings for.

So yeah, I'm looking for a partner who's not just into kink, but who also wants to build something real. I like being in charge, but I also want a connection that goes beyond just the bedroom. One that places you in your feminine energy, and me in my masculinity. A connection with a woman I truly cherish. I'm all about those subtle flirty vibes during the day, building up to some serious fireworks for when we're alone together. And yeah, I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic too – I live for those deep kisses and passionate embraces that make your heart race.

As for me:

• I'm 6'1 and white with dark hair; attractive.
• Keeping in shape is important to me, so I'm in the gym regularly. Please be fit too.
• I've got couple of degrees under my belt, professional in corporate.
• When it comes to kinks, I'm into rough sex, spanking, toys, breast and anal play, forced orgasms, orgasm denial, bondage/restraints, degradation/humiliation, exhibitionism, choking, slapping, and more. Let's chat all about it.
• I have some experience as a Dom and in kink, but am open to partners of any experience level.

So, if you're up for some kinky adventures and romance and live in Van, hit me up. I've got a pic in my profile. Send a pic back my way (censor it as you'd like) and let's see where this takes us. I've had the pleasure of chatting with a few really amazing people on here, and while it hasn't panned out, I find this to feel much more authentic than online dating. So if you're curious, feel free to say hi. Can't wait to hear from you