Greetings,

I am a 31 year old man, located in Western Canada, actively seeking a dynamic based on communication, trust, and effort.

Bullet points for easier readability follow:

ABOUT YOU:

• Location and age is not important to me, as this will be primarily online, with the potential for IRL if you live in Western Canada or if there's an exceptionally strong connection. Do not let the USA/Canada tags discourage you if you live outside North America. Feel free to message regardless of your location.

• I am plus size and mod/alt/goth friendly as well.

• All genders are free to message me. You can be trans, sissy, CD, enby, etc. It doesn't matter to me.

• The most important thing to me is effort and communication. I grow tired of putting in 75% of the work in sustaining a conversation, only to get 'yes' or 'no', or 'I don't know' in response.

• If you cannot initiate a conversation unprompted, ie start chatting to me without me prompting or reaching out first, please do not reach out. Obviously this does not apply to you or any other interested parties reaching out to me in response to this post.

• If you use text speech or excessive shorthand, please do not reach out.

• Above all, I crave substance and depth in conversation, both platonic and kinky.

ABOUT ME

• 31 years old. Identify as a man, but I am open and respectful of all genders and gender identities.

• Strong and effective communicator.

• Knowledgeable about kink, consent, RACK, SSC, boundaries and aftercare.

• I live in the MST or UTC -7 timezone, but this can be adjusted accordingly, according to either mine or my dynamic partner's schedule. I am somewhat of a night owl and early riser, so I would be willing to adjust accordingly for a dynamic.

• Believes that the best dynamics start from a place of friendship where trust, communication, effort and compatibility are established. Only then can a submissive be vulnerable and open. I believe in getting to know the person before the submissive, if that makes sense. Show me what you are passionate about. Tell me about yourself.

• Somewhat of an exhibitionist, who likes showing off.

• I am my own person outside of kink and the bedroom. I have interests and hobbies, and am pursuing post secondary.

DYNAMIC SPECIFICS

• To be very upfront, I am a Dominant seeking a Submissive of any gender. I do not switch. I do not bottom either.

• This dynamic would be primarily online/text based, with the potential for video/audio calls later on.

• Play sessions would be scheduled regularly, with understanding that life does get busy and that we might have to reschedule.

• I am fine with receiving and sending pictures, videos and audio clips, but am also equally fine with none of the above, either seeing it or sending it.

• I enjoy flirting, teasing and banter. Brats, please message me.

• I have a lot of respect and appreciation for caregivers and platonic dynamics, but please be aware that I am not interested in a 100% platonic or sex free dynamic.

CLOSING

I am sure I am missing some things, so this post will be updated as things come to me.

Please message me if any of this post resonated with you. Chat requests will be answered as will DMs.

Please, please, please put some effort into your initial chat or message. It is highly unlikely I will respond to anything less than a paragraph. Furthermore, please use good grammar and syntax in your message as well.

Looking forward to hearing from you,

M

PS: If this post is still up, I am still looking. Feel free to message.