Hi there and thanks for taking the time to read my post. As stated above I'm a 30 year old submissive male seeking an intelligent and caring domme for a female led relationship in the Hudson Valley area. I do not want a kink dispenser, I want a best friend.

Vanilla about me: I work in healthcare and have a great career. I have a master's degree and I'm very financially stable (currently saving to purchase a house when the market corrects). I'm a big nerd so I really, high fantasy things, PC gaming, and some anime. I'm socially well adjusted and just as comfortable staying in for the night or going out to a nice dinner with friends.

Not so vanilla: I have experience as a collared sub in a past relationship and have gone to IRL play parties as well. I have a laundry list of kinks including body worship, chastity, pegging, bondage (this is a big one), impact, tease and denial, and objectification. I really enjoy most kinds of play. I'd love to be tied up to watch a movie and cuddle, or we could even rent the local dungeon for a special occasion.

At the end of the day I feel many men cheapen the value of their own submission by throwing it at the feet of any "domme" with little to no thought. Men should feel empowered in their submission, choosing to give over control to someone they respect. The respect should be mutual. It's important for me to feel respected in a dynamic.

Please 25 or older and within an hour or two drive of me. If you read the entire post send me a chat or DM with the word Red in the first sentence or title. I'm happy to exchange pictures fairly quickly to make sure there's mutual attraction. As a heads up I'm very masculine and have a bit of a dad bod (I do lift weights). Please be single and unattached with no kids. If you're poly it depends on your arrangement and we can discuss this later.

I know this was a long post but I wanted to make it clear what I'm looking for. Thanks for sticking it out. Hoping to hear from you soon.