Note: I posted this ad a month or so ago, sorry if I never responded to you. I’d found my person pretty early. It’s a bit of a long one, so please bear with me:

I’m a sub looking for a kind and cruel Dom/daddy and boyfriend, (hopefully it turns long term, but I don’t want to force it).

I’m a big believer in sex/kink/anything sexual being 90% mental. For me to feel connected enough to be your sub, I need to feel connected to you - as a human, and as a friend.

A bit about me:

I’m a graduate student, working on my thesis this year. Love reading. Walks. Voice messages. Sweet cocktails. Banter. Intellectual playfulness. Laughter. Naps. Sending specifically tailored tiktoks to friends. Being silly. The gym (kind of 🥲). Hugs. Platonic touches. Human rights issues are important to me.

We would be a good fit if you’re someone who:

• I can laugh with (!!)
• can be a friend first above all else
• observes…and remembers
• is 22-28
• has time for a needy sub / wants to call

my kinks:

✨ being talked to in a slow/teasing/smirky/condescending/patronizing tone:

• “I know baby, I knowww”
• “Aw, that hurts?”
• “you’re such a good girl”
• “you can take it for me, yeah?”
• “you’re such a mess”
• “shhh, you’re being so loud”
• “you’re so needy”
• “shhh, just let it happen”
• “aw how cute, you’re starting to cry”
• “I didn’t say like it, I said do it”
• “I’m so proud of you”
• “I’ll kiss it to make it better”
• being mocked like I’m too worked up to be spoken like an adult (“you can’t even speak properly”/ “oh and you’re supposed to be sooo smart, huh”/ “you’re so dumb and adorable”)
• when we’re chatting/laughing about something casually and my Dom suddenly gets serious

✨being:

• taught a skill
• read to
• petted until I fall asleep
• praised, hugged, kissed softly on the forehead
• made afraid of you, and grabbing me by the face only to kiss me all over
• made to whimper and whine
• hurt affectionately
• mindfucked
• on your lap while you game or work
• naked on your lap while you game or work (clothed)
• talked dirty to while I’m in public
• asked questions that aren’t really questions

✨other:

• having my legs pried open because I’m shy
• made to feel physically smaller (than you)
• nice voice
• ddlg (I have recently discovered I like being made to say “daddy”)

Interested in trying:

fear play, knife play

Limits:

Scat, blood, permanent physical harm, degrading/namecalling based my weight, others we can talk about as we go.

If you’re interested, let’s quickly chat on Reddit to see if we mesh? I would eventually want to do a quick voice call as well.

xx