Throwing a hail mary and shooting for the stars, plus a change up in my approach. This post is much heavier on the sex and kink side of things, so Iāll get the vanilla out of the way fairly quick. If you really want to know more older posts on my profile will shed some light. Iām 6ā5ā, white, black hair (though the greys have officially begun), brown eyes. I exercise often and expect you to too. That being said I also like beer and ice cream so if youāre expecting a rock hard six pack youāre going to be disappointed. Life in balance and all. To that end Iām not looking for physical perfection out of you (definitely not turning it down either haha), but not even making an effort is a hard no. My two big caveats are āgood enoughā teeth and cannot have a flat ass. Iām sorry, I can be attracted to a wide variety of shapes and sizes but thatās one I canāt get over.
Iām looking for a long term relationship, potentially marriage and all that jazz. Open minded to adventure and not locked to Kansas City are a must. I donāt intend to have kids. Thatās all Iām going to say on that for now. Like I said, vanilla in an old post.
On to the fun stuff. Iām seeking a submissive woman, 26-30 years old, local to the Kansas City area. A little travel will do but itās physical intimacy Iām looking for. I have a high sex drive and need someone with a similar drive. Kinks, in no particular order, include hair pulling, anal, free use, clothing control, some rules, light bondage, face fucking, begging, and cock worship. Not an exhaustive list but a start. Appearance is a big one for me, so dressing provocatively, lingerie, and high heels are a must. Someone with exhibitionist tendencies, very comfortable with and not shy about their own bodies. Some elements of a bimbo kink. Iām not interested in the overinflated look but the sex object frame of mind. Punishments administered as necessary, and can range from physical to mental or some combination thereof. I have an interest in behavior modification as well that Iād like to explore.
A bit of a departure from the typical quiet sub expectations, I highly encourage you to embrace your sexuality. Masturbation, toys, porn, and initiating sexual activity. Thereās some caveats, asterisks, and rules in there but we can discuss that later. I also highly enjoy making out, could do it for hours on end, and youāre encouraged to kiss me whenever. This isnāt an exhaustive list, and Iām open to exploring your kinks as well.
Please come to me ready to be an active participant. I put in a fair amount of effort and Iām not looking for a starfish in text or in the bedroom. I am slow to get to active sex/play but I do want to establish comfort discussing it early on. Outside of that Iām looking for a life partner so engaging outside of the bedroom is very important as well.
Limits include: scat, age play, blood, knife/gun/weapon play
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