Through many evolutions of self, trial, and a few errors, I believe that I am a very masochistic brat who just needs someone so dominant and sadistic that I cave. Caving is the best feeling. Do you like the feeling where you force me to cave to your will? Where all my uncertainty and self-protection melts away and I embrace whatever darkness (or light) you want to subject me to, involve me in.

Mutual obsession is very much my passion and my specialty. It is hard to find. I’m very picky about the energy I allow into my life. You have to be at the very least these things:

Intelligent, educated, older than me or my age (or within 2 years), not a criminal, no serious criminal history, not a liar, doesn’t give up easily, doesn’t mind I am married (he knows, zero interest in involvement in any way), not sexist or racist, either no kids or grown kids, time for high levels of communication, willing to send real photos of yourself so we don’t waste each other’s time (I find a wide range of men attractive, but still).

I need someone who wants to control me and my life and help me be my best self. 24/7 TPE over the phone/video is the dream. In person would be even better if trust allows.

I have done this before quite successfully. I ended up leaving him about a year ago due to a bizarre disagreement in which he showed his ass and I lost respect for him.

I’m looking for someone healthy.

I’m attractive, actively working to lose like ten lbs but have been very thin to normal most of my life. Preference for someone this is irrelevant to.

Hoping for something very serious, long-term/forever. Want a collar. Want a tattoo. Want to belong to you.

Wide range of kinks, a few fetishes. We can discuss. Nothing illegal. Do NOT message me if you’re into animal stuff or anything that doesn’t involve consenting adults. I am interested in RACK folks and CNC.

I feel I’ve written too much. Let’s chat. Chase and pursue me I love it.